Ok, so there is this girl that I made out with years ago when I was actually with someone else. This girl really wanted to get with me back then and I guess she had a huge crush on me. I'm single now and we reconnected...she still really wants to get with me. We have been texting each other the last week and tonight she starts sending me a couple pics of her topless. I have heard rumors that she gets around and there was even a rumor at one point that she was a stripper. I don't know if anything is true...but I do know she wants to fu** me and of course if I go through with it I will use protection but how effective is that? I'm the kind of person that even after I do it I will wonder if I have something lol. It almost makes me think I shouldn't go through with it...but I think maybe I need to get laid right now.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Paranoid about std's
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Nothing is 100% but a condom is the safest you can get. I have slept with over 30 women and knock on wood have yet to get an STD. I would say 10-11 of them were without condoms. Some of them were girlfriends and some of them were girls that I stuck it in, and did'nt bother reaching for a condom. Stupid yes but I am ok right now.
Your logic is that of someone saying I am not going to drive to work because I might get in an accident. You should be fine, just don't go down on her. Even a girl who has had sex with one partner could have something it is a risk we all take..
Good Luck
Your logic is that of someone saying I am not going to drive to work because I might get in an accident. You should be fine, just don't go down on her. Even a girl who has had sex with one partner could have something it is a risk we all take..
Good Luck
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If you don't have any open scratches or sores on your fingers, and if she doesn't have any open sores on or inside her vagina you should be okay.
There's a lot of conditions one must pass to get STDs. Sometimes it's as simple as sticking it in - sometimes it's not.
It's all a risk, dude.
There's a lot of conditions one must pass to get STDs. Sometimes it's as simple as sticking it in - sometimes it's not.
It's all a risk, dude.
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LOL I banged a woman while she was on the period about 2 years ago. I refused to do it without a condom, but she wanted me to bareback it.
Scared the sh!t out of me STD-wise for a good long time...I didn't have sex for like a year after that and got HIV-tested at 3 months. (they say 6 but in 99% of cases HIV seroconverts within 3)
I'd be a little concerned too about strippers/sex-workers. It's the only reason I didn't contract that hooker last time I was in Vegas...she was FINE-looking and I was all wired after coming from the clubs and chatting up underwear models all night.
But then, it is what it is. You don't know what ANYONE's done. You could meet a girl who seems nice as sh!t, wait till the 3rd date, and discover later that she'd had a train run on her by the football team in high school.
With modern relationships being so weak-sauce and "cheating" being so common, if you want to dodge STDs, find a girl who you think is "clean" and then marry her.
Otherwise, wrap it and pray.
Scared the sh!t out of me STD-wise for a good long time...I didn't have sex for like a year after that and got HIV-tested at 3 months. (they say 6 but in 99% of cases HIV seroconverts within 3)
I'd be a little concerned too about strippers/sex-workers. It's the only reason I didn't contract that hooker last time I was in Vegas...she was FINE-looking and I was all wired after coming from the clubs and chatting up underwear models all night.
But then, it is what it is. You don't know what ANYONE's done. You could meet a girl who seems nice as sh!t, wait till the 3rd date, and discover later that she'd had a train run on her by the football team in high school.
With modern relationships being so weak-sauce and "cheating" being so common, if you want to dodge STDs, find a girl who you think is "clean" and then marry her.
Otherwise, wrap it and pray.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Vitor that is bad advice...I try to avoid driving after midnight on weekends cause I know the chance of getting cleaned up by a drunk driver is significantly increased. Rhino simply ask the girl to go to the clinic and get tested and bring you the results...if you do this she'll realise your value even more and the benefits of a stable clean partner.