"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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paranoia or is this just me???

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hey i have been smoking weed for about a year now and the feelings been amazing =] but the past few months i have been smoking i have been getting paranoia anxiety and hearing really negative thoughts in my head and its getting worse and worse everytime i smoke and it sucks because i miss my having a bowl with my mates but now whenever do even if i have a little bit i have that feeling everyones looking at me thinking **** about me and i get negative thoughts in my head and they wont go waway and i have tried everything to make this paranoia go away when im stoned but nothing works my mind seems to be concentrated on this bad buzz and it wont think about anything else and theres nothing i can do except for dwell deeper into this depressive buzz until the high wears off. im fine when im strate tho this **** only happens when im stoned. has this happened to anyone else and is there a solution to make this buzz go away so i can carry on smoking weed?? any help would be very much appreciated thanks.

iv heard that taking klonopin or xanax before smoking weed would take away the paranoia that i would get from smoking weed. but im not sure i havent tried any other drugs exept for ecstacy and that was a long long time before i started getting the bad buzz so i dont know what has caused it and i cant find any help about it on the net so heres my best chance.

cheers :up:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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iv heard that taking klonopin or xanax before smoking weed would take away the paranoia that i would get from smoking weed.
They also make you very drowsy and cause you to black out. So, to keep yourself sharp, you need adderall.

Adderall will make you a bit tense, and it can cause teeth grinding. To prevent this, you'll need a muscle relaxant and some alcohol. These could cause sleepiness, so take Red Bull and ephedrine to keep awake. When it's time to sleep, Nyquil will help.
 

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yeah after a while smoking isnt the same anymore, it starts bringing in one negative effect after another. dont take klonopin or xanax dude, those are not drugs you should be messing with as they are more dangerous than weed.

just cut down your smoking time and the amount that you smoke. or take a month break and then resume.
 

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Phyzzle said:
They also make you very drowsy and cause you to black out. So, to keep yourself sharp, you need adderall.

Adderall will make you a bit tense, and it can cause teeth grinding. To prevent this, you'll need a muscle relaxant and some alcohol. These could cause sleepiness, so take Red Bull and ephedrine to keep awake. When it's time to sleep, Nyquil will help.
I really hope this post was a joke. Taking all these combinations of drugs together is NOT good for you. Thousands of people are addicted to Nyquil and currently have insomnia due to it. Aderall is addicting in itself. My best friend overdosed on muscle relaxers last year and almost killed himself. Ephedrine has been banned for a reason..

I could go on and on
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Its obviously a joke.

Quit smoking weed. The same thing happened to me. After a year or two of regretting every time getting stoned, it dawned on me that maybe I should just stop. You're obviously a natural worrier/analyzer like me. It also has to do with becoming an adult. I havent really smoked in ten years, minus one or two occasions, and it still sucked.

It's one less bad habit to have. Look at it that way.
 

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Some ppl have different experiences, for myself i get really motivated to do things. I smoke everyday before I workout and I'm in the best shape of my life, its all in your head and how you view things. I had the same exact problem, you just gotta tell yourself who the fvck cares what everyone is thinking about you and just enjoy the fact that your high its your life. If you can't then a break would be the best way to go. Also, think about it in terms of money... do you wanna pay for bud and not enjoy it?
 
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