BannedGod
Senior Don Juan
Once you did the basic touching kino, would palm reading be a good way to start touching more the girl?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
arm reading? it exists?MAVER1CK said:hell yea, dont stop there either... do arm reading.. and if you can, go to stomach readings.
the more time you spend touching and she gets comfy with it.. the BETTER.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MAVER1CK said:Listen dildo. Dont cramp the mans game.
Want to know why its been around since the 60s? BECAUSE IT WORKS.
now shush.
apprently there are a lot of things you are not aware of.MAVER1CK said:dumb chicks? what? I wasnt aware there were levels of intellect in the female pool..
Yeah, call me names, and when you grow up, you'll learn how to debate like an adult.MAVER1CK said:but if your some inflamed male douche who frowns on everything, then Shut it.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I think if you used this as an opener yeah you'd pretty much be shooting yourself in the foot. But if you worked it in after building some good repore or while having some drinks they'd laugh but they'd think it was cute or funny. It'd be like doing a cheap bar or magic trick, kinda like building to a winning personality.rocky_mtn said:Yeah, what ever works for you. Some dumb chicks might go for the palm reading. Most of the women I meet would laugh at that sh!t, but that's just me. Sarge on.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.