“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Pair of shoes

grinder

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A couple months ago I ordered a pair of shoes I thought I would like. Been wearing them a while and the left one chafes my ankle and the right one was causing my Achilles to hurt.

I can’t return them and get my money back, there’s actually nothing wrong with them, they just don’t fit.

So, I stubbornly kept wearing them and rationalizing to myself I’d break them in. Hell, I think I even started walking differently to fit into those damn shoes.

I was a little surprised at myself at how hard it was to throw those fvckers in the dumpster and get some new ones. For a little while there I even told myself they really weren’t all that uncomfortable after all. And, truth is, I think I actually believed it too!

Whew, good thing I had another pair to wear.

Yep, it’s always good to have some spare shoes.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Good analogy. :up:

I'm going to have to remember that next time I'm standing next to a hotty at the craps table.

"C'mon! Daddy needs a new pair of shoes!"
 

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Great analogy, Commander Grinder.:)

And just think:

Wonder how much BETTER a guy would feel if he realized he could be JUST AS COMFORTABLE walking around in bare feet----maybe occasionally "wanting", but not "NEEDING' any shoes at all?

Wonder how even much more of an epiphany THAT revelation would be?:rockon:
 

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Victory Unlimited said:
Great analogy, Commander Grinder.:)

And just think:

Wonder how much BETTER a guy would feel if he realized he could be JUST AS COMFORTABLE walking around in bare feet----maybe occasionally "wanting", but not "NEEDING' any shoes at all?

Wonder how even much more of an epiphany THAT revelation would be?:rockon:
Thanks.

They were damn fine looking shoes too.

I don’t think I can go barefoot yet after ditching those. I'm working on it.
 
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