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Pain under shoulder blade

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On Tuesday I was getting ready for work and suddenly had an annoying pain under my right shoulder blade. I did some stretches and it subsided until this morning. I woke up at 4am and it was brutal... almost felt like a cramp I couldn’t reach. Got ready for work... when I got into my car could still feel it for the first few minutes and now it’s gone. I am leaving for vacation tonight and was looking to see if anyone has dealt with this and fixed it ( concerned it flares up away from home)
 

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On Tuesday I was getting ready for work and suddenly had an annoying pain under my right shoulder blade. I did some stretches and it subsided until this morning. I woke up at 4am and it was brutal... almost felt like a cramp I couldn’t reach. Got ready for work... when I got into my car could still feel it for the first few minutes and now it’s gone. I am leaving for vacation tonight and was looking to see if anyone has dealt with this and fixed it ( concerned it flares up away from home)
I know what you are talking about...it's definitely annoying and something I get from time to time as well.

I believe it's a pinched/inflamed nerve and usually goes away on its own after a few days but it can be really sharp pain when you do certain movements or extend in a direction without thinking about it.
 

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I believe it's a pinched/inflamed nerve and usually goes away on its own after a few days but it can be really sharp pain when you do certain movements or extend in a direction without thinking about it.
exactly... it seems it might have something to do with my neck... I pulled my neck down... and could feel the stretch in that area... that’s the stretch that got rid of it on Tuesday
 

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exactly... it seems it might have something to do with my neck... I pulled my neck down... and could feel the stretch in that area... that’s the stretch that got rid of it on Tuesday
Yup...sounds like you could use a good head snapping at the Chiro haha
 
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