People are guided in life by one of two things. Either it's to avoid pain or garner pleasure. Sadly for most people, it's the abhorrence of pain that is the determining factor.
Take the dating game. Most guys are afraid to approach women because they fear rejection and the (perceived) humiliation that follows rather than the "warm luscious pus*y" that's the reward of the determined DJ. The pain of a girl's rejection outweighs the euphoria of banging that HB.
What's the pain really? So what if she says to you "Get lost you loser!" (it's her big loss). So what if her jealous EX wants to do a Lorena Bobbit on you (it's only a hollow threat). So what if some alpha male tries to steal your girl and you put up a fight and he beats the crap out of you. Sure, your black eyes may require sunglasses for a week or two, but think of the elevation of her interest level in you seeing you stand up for yourself. The end game is that you get the sizzling pus*y! Pleasure driven action rather than the avoidance of pain is what separates the DJ from the AFC.
Take the dating game. Most guys are afraid to approach women because they fear rejection and the (perceived) humiliation that follows rather than the "warm luscious pus*y" that's the reward of the determined DJ. The pain of a girl's rejection outweighs the euphoria of banging that HB.
What's the pain really? So what if she says to you "Get lost you loser!" (it's her big loss). So what if her jealous EX wants to do a Lorena Bobbit on you (it's only a hollow threat). So what if some alpha male tries to steal your girl and you put up a fight and he beats the crap out of you. Sure, your black eyes may require sunglasses for a week or two, but think of the elevation of her interest level in you seeing you stand up for yourself. The end game is that you get the sizzling pus*y! Pleasure driven action rather than the avoidance of pain is what separates the DJ from the AFC.
