"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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P/U HB 10's w/friends bottle service, opinions!

spiegel549

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I live in Los Angeles and go clubbing regularly.

I recently made some new connections with some guy acquaintances that are well off, that every weekend with out fail have bottle service.

I always think to myself how can I pick up these HB 10's? Before I was just walking the dance floor doing what I could to p/u girls. Now every single time I go out I am at a table drinking for free.

I noticed last night a lot of the 7's & 8's notice your at a table, realize your "spending money" even though its not my table, and I have pretty good success with gaming them and getting there numbers, never mentioning who's table it is etc.

What I still can't figure out is how to game the HB 10's that are at the table with us already. Last night after the liquor was flowing I grabbed one of the HB 10's at the table and she started dancing Salsa with me, she was so f*cking hot I mentally think "how the hell did I get her to dance with me." lol.

At the end of the day I am a confident guy. I am in insane shape, been working out 9 years. I'm attractive but I am only 5'7" so I feel like my height prevents me from going after theses HB 10's because they are all taller then me.

Opinions/advice please on how to better my game with these HB's at the table??
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SpazzAttackk

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No such thing as an HB10 in a club man

HB 8.5 tops for looks HB 4 tops for personality
 

Peaks&Valleys

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SpazzAttackk said:
No such thing as an HB10 in a club man

HB 8.5 tops for looks HB 4 tops for personality
A club in LA. I beg to differ.

I'm attractive but I am only 5'7" so I feel like my height prevents me from going after theses HB 10's because they are all taller then me.
This way of thinking is what's holding you back.
 

Ronaldo7

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Your height disadvantage is just a state of mind. Use your physique to your advantage. You can't change the fact that you are a midget. Pump out your chest and keep your head up. Project the confidence that you want people to perceive you with. A predator smells the prey's fear. People pick up on things you are insecure about.
 

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those girls are sluts and like guys with money big surprise i know...you already pulled off the difficult part getting in the situation in the first place now just start talking to the girls at the table and gaming them...mystery solved...and quit thinking about your height...think about what you will do to them when their clothes are off instead..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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