"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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P.E. Girl?

needstochange

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Alright so there's this girl that I have P.E. with. We don't have the same P.E. teacher but her class walks the track like mines does. Now, I know nothing about her. But from the P.E. teacher she has, all I can assume is that she's a freshman. She's an HB +8.5/+9. Now my question is, how do I approach her? She's usually with friends and this kinda dark-skinned hispanic cholo guy (cholo=gangster, la hispanic 'gangster'). We had made a eye contact at one point (from a distance), which was like 3 seconds of us just staring at each other and my dumbass didn't say hi or anything. I just looked away. I'm kind of afraid to approach her since it's P.E. and I might smell bad, etc. Also, my friend told me a few days ago that she glanced at me (kinda doubt that means anything on her part though). He told me this two days after the eye contact we made. I'm new here so pelase don't flame me. Also, I'm not a DJ really so I'm just learning the ropes.

Thanks alot :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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eaglez1177

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Just dont work your ass off in gym and make sure your not all sweaty, and put on some deodorant before gym class or in the morning.

You have nothing to be afraid of, just go up to her and be like "this class really sucks" and then start a convo. Or be like "i hate gym so much" (reason why I used these examples is cuz EVERY girl HATES gym class with a passion).
 

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eaglez1177 said:
Just dont work your ass off in gym and make sure your not all sweaty, and put on some deodorant before gym class or in the morning.

You have nothing to be afraid of, just go up to her and be like "this class really sucks" and then start a convo. Or be like "i hate gym so much" (reason why I used these examples is cuz EVERY girl HATES gym class with a passion).
If you go with that approach, she might mark you as someone who doesn't care about physical fitness...ie a slob. I think it would be better to go with a neutral approach such as just walking up to her and asking how her day has been.
 

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Someone suggested I just go up to her and ask what middle school did she go to. It would make sense since she's a freshie. I was thinking of asking her:

Me: "Hey you look familiar. If you don't mind me asking, what middle school did you go to?"

Her: "I went to ______."

Me: "Ohh okay nevermind. Your not the person I thought you were. Well my name is David by the way, but you can call me Stud." *smile*

Her: *Giggles* "Okay 'Stud'. My name is ____."

And then continue from there.


Does that sound like a good plan or a fail? :/
 
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