"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok so heres my situation, theres this HB8, Ive been working on my body language and such for a long time now, shes obviously attracted to me, at first I was just cool about it, were acquainces weve only talked a few times and its just been comments here and there in group conversations, anyways I wasnt nervous but now Ive put too much thought into talking with her, Im not usually the best conversationalist unless Im totally relaxed and yeah this pretty much effs me up, the girl is already attracted to me but if nervousness in talkign to her messes up my game Im gonna be pissed.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stop over thinking it, show her you're interested, engage on a USEFUL conversation that will elevate you from a "just another guy who I think is cute" to..."This guy is cute! I want to get to know him more!"

If you find yourself thinking about this girl alot, you'll get nervous even more. I suggest you find another girl so you dont create a oneitis for this broad.
 
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thats the prob theres like 2 chicks Im interested in only and this is the one Im maily interested on and she ALREADY likes me anyways, shes sent me massive iois, but Im a newbie at progressing on this, I'll approach the other one in class, but yeah I used to be "socially retarded" not much now, Im trying to get there I guess
 
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