"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ok so heres my situation, theres this HB8, Ive been working on my body language and such for a long time now, shes obviously attracted to me, at first I was just cool about it, were acquainces weve only talked a few times and its just been comments here and there in group conversations, anyways I wasnt nervous but now Ive put too much thought into talking with her, Im not usually the best conversationalist unless Im totally relaxed and yeah this pretty much effs me up, the girl is already attracted to me but if nervousness in talkign to her messes up my game Im gonna be pissed.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stop over thinking it, show her you're interested, engage on a USEFUL conversation that will elevate you from a "just another guy who I think is cute" to..."This guy is cute! I want to get to know him more!"

If you find yourself thinking about this girl alot, you'll get nervous even more. I suggest you find another girl so you dont create a oneitis for this broad.
 
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thats the prob theres like 2 chicks Im interested in only and this is the one Im maily interested on and she ALREADY likes me anyways, shes sent me massive iois, but Im a newbie at progressing on this, I'll approach the other one in class, but yeah I used to be "socially retarded" not much now, Im trying to get there I guess
 
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