Overt competition anxiety?

[Technics]

Now I know that overtly telling your gf/wife that other girls want you is not a good idea as they should be able to sense it by your covert communications.

However last night I was in bed with my gf and I got a text msg from a guy I play social sport with but not really a friend. My gf's head was resting on me as I opened the msg so she was reading it too.

The message said "hey Technics that hottie (name) that I coach that was down there yesterday just texted me asking for your number, want me to give it to her?"

This guy doesn't know I've got a gf.

Now I know that this wasn't me overtly telling her other girls want me but will her seeing this text work against me or will it create good competition anxiety in her?

If she didn't see this text while I was reading it, I obviously wouldn't have showed her.

 

[SmooveMooves]

This creates competitive anxiety. You didn't tell her, your buddy did.

She saw that and thought "The man I'm with is desirable, other chicks want him, I better do my best to keep him around"

Curious though, how did you respond with your Gf lurking over your shoulder?

 

[Technics]

I simply chuckled and said 'I feel like I'm in high school again" (regarding asking someone for someone else's number) then put my phone away. I thought maybe I should reply "I have a gf" while she was watching but I didn't.

She didn't say anything but I could smell the smoke from her hamster cage spinning so fast lol.

How would you have reacted with her watching?

E.g. If she asked "aren't you going to reply?"

 

[MattTheW]

Well played - perfect

 

[Cerwin Vega]

Perfectly executed, brother. You should not care about how she feels, you should only care about her attraction switches.