Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Overstress

jtb123

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Hey, Sorry if this is in the wrong forum but do any of you know how to deal with OVERSTRESS?

If there are any good threads about the issue could you please direct me towards them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by jtb123
Hey, Sorry if this is in the wrong forum but do any of you know how to deal with OVERSTRESS?

If there are any good threads about the issue could you please direct me towards them.
Go to the gym and lift heavy things. It's my preferred method of stress relief when my grad classes get too tough.
 
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