"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Overseas Advice?

Mello

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I'm going on an extended overseas trip from this July till October. I'll be in the Czech Republic, Italy, and Southern Spain. Anyone have any advice or suggested reading specific to European seduction methods?

Thanks and much appreciated,

~Mello
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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European women are (for the most part) easier than American women.
Simply because they are more open to sex. It is put into the American females brain that sex is a bad thing from early on in childhood. European women dont have that problem. Have fun.

BTW: Creating attraction for European women will be exactly the same, there still women and want a MAN.
 

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Bah, humbug. There is much more variation between nations in Europe than there is between states in the U.S., so you can't make a sweeping comment like that; and someone could just as easily have written a post saying American women are sluttier, and it would be just as believable. (As long as you make it sound negative toward Americans, anything will be accepted, is the rule. Even among Americans.)

Norway and Macedonia are much farther apart culturally than Norway and Ohio. Finland and Portugal are farther apart than Finland and Seattle. Mello, just keep your head with you, and don't be a nerd or an asshol3.
 

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Thanks guys. I tend to agree with Friendly Otter.

Three years ago, I was visiting some relatives (by marriage) in Czech Republic. While staying at their extremely large home, my sister-in-law's friends stayed over. No one but me and my sister-in-law spoke English, but alcohol was served and laughter naturally followed. By the end of the night I was speaking a few Czech words and they were speaking some broken English. I did not flirt with anybody. I just sat there and tried to enjoy myself.

Bedtime came and I retired to my room. Half drunk, I immediately flopped onto the bed and closed my eyes. A few minutes later I heard a knock on the door.

"Come in."

One of my sister-in-laws friends, Jerri, walked in. She stood there while I slowly lifted my head from my pillow.

"Yes?" I asked blurry eyed.

Not speaking very much English, she replied, "I kiss you?"

Finally noticing she was wearing only shorts and a bra, I said yes and invited her over to my bed. We had sex without any more words spoken.

So...my question is was it only because I was from the United States? I'm Mexican and from Texas. Maybe I was exotic the same way girls from foreign lands seem to Americans. I was in Czech Republic and Mexicans don't exactly grow on trees over there. I know something like this doesn't fall into your lap everyday.

I understand women want a man, but I'm not asking that. I was wondering are there any specific ways to approach the average girl on the street while not looking like an American douche.

thanks again,
Mello
 
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