"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Overrating HB's on this forum

green69

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All the time on Field Reports, Stories etc. I always hear guys refer to girls as HB8, HB9, HB9.5...

Now that's all good and well, but am I missing something here...or based on the fact how many 'HB9's' are mentioned it makes it seem like there are so many of them. I go to a local college where most of the hot college girls go. And rarely do I see an HB9 (by my standards.) Sure, there are lots of HB7's, even a fair amount of HB7.5's but not very many SUPER hot girls. Even when I walk around, rarely do I see a girl where I would rate her a 9 or better. But by the way people post here, it's almost as if HB9's are a dime a dozen. So that means one (or more) of three things...

A) A lot of people here live in areas where there are a lot of hot chicks, moreso than where I'm from.

B) A lot people on this forum have lower standards than I do.

C) Posters are insecure so they bump up the ratings of the girls they are with.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Big Eee Zee

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i agree. anyone rating an HB8 and above will not be believed without corroboration.
 

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I can't believe I will reply to this but here it goes:

BEAUTY is in the EYE of the BEHOLDER!

Why would you post about a 1,2,3,4,5, or 6??? Law of supply and demand; the hotter the chick the more she is on demand!

This forum is geared (IMHO) for us to became adept at getting HB's, therefore that is why most guys rates them as such.

My friends scale is wayyy... off from my scale. I like white chicks with curves, nice big ass and hips, long legs, blondes.

My friend likes small spanish chicks....

So there ya go!
 

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I agree 100%.

My scale is strict, so when i post here people must think I'm only going after the uglies :crackup: :crackup:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ewww thats just ummm... whats the word WRONG

yeah its how you see them and what you like..in them....other then yourself :crackup:

Yeah one of my boys doesnt see what I like in one girl I got with awhile back... I was like whatever my woody says your wrong..

No doubt eye of the beholder.
 

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I wouldn't worry about it. My friend calls me all the time and tells me about the HB4s he was chatting up at parties... funny sh!t.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It's weird on this board...girls that guys were picking up are 8s, 9s, or 10s...but if somebody posts a picture of a girl they're seeing, then everybody thinks she's a "5 to a 7 at best"...

I <3 Seanchai too. And Sparklemotion.
 

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Rating humans on a scale like they are a piece of ****ing cattle is horrible. You either find her attractive, or you don't. Stop trying to validate your standards to someone on the internet with some asinine numerical filing system. Shut the **** up and get over yourself.
 

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Originally posted by evoke
Rating humans on a scale like they are a piece of ****ing cattle is horrible. You either find her attractive, or you don't. Stop trying to validate your standards to someone on the internet with some asinine numerical filing system. Shut the **** up and get over yourself.
This is directed at me I take it? lol.

I never said I'm out there getting HB9's all the time, because I'm not. All I'm saying is that guys on the forum throw out the numbers HB8 and HB9 all the time, when in my opinion I don't see that many girls meeting those ratings.

All it was, was an observation. Not trying to validate myself to a bunch of people I don't even know, over the internet.
 

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I wonder if there are any scientific studies that show exacally what improvements in facial and body charecteristics move a potential HB9 into the catagory of HB10...oh wait, it's an opinion.
But it's still helpful to hear that a girl was a HB8, 9 or 10 to give us readers reference to the type of chick he's talking 'bout. Either way, the seduction skills remain the same, who cares if he's jacking the ratings up a notch? It's only if he's saying in a FR that a nerdy she-Urkle lookalike was a self-assured Paris Hilton - coz then the dynamics of the pick-up changes a bit.
 

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It was directed at everyone who used this dehumanizing evaluation method to determine the "value" of another person. Quit judging people on 0utward (why the **** is 0utward censored?) appearances. You all come across like a gang of 12 year old girls reading Teen Beat.

"Ooo... Orlando Bloom is sooooo hot!!!!! Like oh my god!!!!!"

Give me a break.

Ninty percent of you couldn't hook up with a woman if your life depended on it, and yet you all have the nerve to behave this way? Pitiful.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by evoke
It was directed at everyone who used this dehumanizing evaluation method to determine the "value" of another person. Quit judging people on 0utward (why the **** is 0utward censored?) appearances. You all come across like a gang of 12 year old girls reading Teen Beat.

"Ooo... Orlando Bloom is sooooo hot!!!!! Like oh my god!!!!!"

Give me a break.

Ninty percent of you couldn't hook up with a woman if your life depended on it, and yet you all have the nerve to behave this way? Pitiful.
Its human nature to judge people, and don't say you don't do it because you do. You just have some idea that it isn't ok to judge a womans looks..
 

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Originally posted by evoke
Rating humans on a scale like they are a piece of ****ing cattle is horrible. You either find her attractive, or you don't. Stop trying to validate your standards to someone on the internet with some asinine numerical filing system. Shut the **** up and get over yourself.
Frustrated AFC alert!
 

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Originally posted by evoke
Rating humans on a scale like they are a piece of ****ing cattle is horrible. You either find her attractive, or you don't. Stop trying to validate your standards to someone on the internet with some asinine numerical filing system. Shut the **** up and get over yourself.
All that despite the fact that 90% of humans ARE cattle...

Besides - use -2 scale.

Say - if someone posts "I just hooked up with this HB9" read "I just hooked up with this HB7" :D
 

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Originally posted by uzio
All that despite the fact that 90% of humans ARE cattle...

Besides - use -2 scale.

Say - if someone posts "I just hooked up with this HB9" read "I just hooked up with this HB7" :D
so guys that hook up with hb6 :eek:
 

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Originally posted by CHOCOLATE(COLA)
so guys that hook up with hb6 :eek:
YEP! :crackup:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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