This concerns a girl who ljbfed me back in March (met her off horornot). She said she felt no chemistry between us but could we be friends:crazy: I said sure as she was friendly enough and hoped to use her as a pivot at some point. Anyways, over the following months we send the odd email back and forth. I asked her to go do stuff a few times (she invited me to a party that I wasn't able to go to).
Out of the blue, she texted me a month back on a Friday to go to a radio promo for a band (she'd won tickets) I liked the band so went along the next day to it. I went along and had a good time. I should add that since she befriended me, I haven't been worried about appearing too eager, what I'm saying etc. I've been experimenting with her in terms of being more ****y, saying edgier stuff.
I seem to have really offended her when in an email after the promo i asked her if it was "that time of the month". She went off on one and ended up asking for an apology. I made fun of this and today I got this email off her when I asked if she wanted to see Clerks 2.
"I think I’ve already explained this to you, but I’ll be more clear. While I liked hanging out with you, I found that you made some negative comments to me once too many. While I might accept this kind of teasing from someone I’ve known a long time, it is really strange to come from someone you hardly know. While you also seem like you have no desire to apologize, I am not going to the movies."
I have only physically seen her twice in 6 months so I do hardly know her. She also complained that I called her whiny and negative before, that was very tongue in cheek though, along the lines of her complaining about waiting for the band and me saying, Oh, you're so whiny
Suggestions about how to proceed from here? An apology would make me look such a wuss, more ****iness would probably make her madder. I have no grand plan with this one but there's no point burning bridges for the sake of it.
Out of the blue, she texted me a month back on a Friday to go to a radio promo for a band (she'd won tickets) I liked the band so went along the next day to it. I went along and had a good time. I should add that since she befriended me, I haven't been worried about appearing too eager, what I'm saying etc. I've been experimenting with her in terms of being more ****y, saying edgier stuff.
I seem to have really offended her when in an email after the promo i asked her if it was "that time of the month". She went off on one and ended up asking for an apology. I made fun of this and today I got this email off her when I asked if she wanted to see Clerks 2.
"I think I’ve already explained this to you, but I’ll be more clear. While I liked hanging out with you, I found that you made some negative comments to me once too many. While I might accept this kind of teasing from someone I’ve known a long time, it is really strange to come from someone you hardly know. While you also seem like you have no desire to apologize, I am not going to the movies."
I have only physically seen her twice in 6 months so I do hardly know her. She also complained that I called her whiny and negative before, that was very tongue in cheek though, along the lines of her complaining about waiting for the band and me saying, Oh, you're so whiny
Suggestions about how to proceed from here? An apology would make me look such a wuss, more ****iness would probably make her madder. I have no grand plan with this one but there's no point burning bridges for the sake of it.