Overlooking Of Bad Habits With The Use Of NLP/SS

[HINDEMITH]

Hello there!!!

I have a question for anyone who would willing to
answer it, and these answers could be helpful to
anyone else with similar problems.

I seem to have numerous lifelong bad habits which
I can't seem to correct (e.g.-- talking to myself, bad
eating and table manners, snoring, dandruff, etc.)
I'm also overweight (about 240 lbs.) and very shy.

Now I know that in the traditional sense many women
would probably be turned off by this. But I'm wonder-
ing if through the use of NLP/SS, a women would for-
give these bad habits and still be attracted to such a
person.

Any input would be appreciated. Thanks.

 

[rismoney]

If you can't correct your habits and you know they are a problem... then you should look into drugs.

bad table manners? gimme a break.
snoring she won't know about till you sleep with her.
dandruff? head and shoulders... every other day and johnson and johnson baby yellow shampoo on odd days. no gel, or alcohol based hairsprays. these dry your scalp, which cause dryness/peeling aka dandruff.

talking to yourself? i talk to myself. if i am in the car, or the shower, i talk through a conversation i might have later. i dont usually do it in anothers company, unless i am so comfortable. And I usually am aware of it.

generally everyone talks to themselves at some point.

overweight ?go to the gym. it will help your confidence, when your meat and potatos turn into something more formidable.

shy. fix the above, and then read bible

 

[HINDEMITH]

rismoney: I very much appreciate your taking the
time to address the correcting of certain bad habits
that I outined above. I really appreciate your input.
However, the issue is this: Assuming that these bad
habits can't be corrected, can they be overlooked and
forgiven by women provided such a man becomes pro-
ficient in NLP/SS. Thanks. Any further input is welcome.

 

[rismoney]

Now I know that in the traditional sense many women
would probably be turned off by this. But I'm wonder-
ing if through the use of NLP/SS, a women would for-
give these bad habits and still be attracted to such a
person.
----
your chances would greatly improve through drugging her, get her liquored up, or went for a someone with a low [1-6] rating.
If you are confident with these bad habits, perhaps someone willing to look beyond them, to see who you really are may come along. They will inevitably get you to change, or else they are a different breed themselves. Definitely not a DJ move. Obviously I don't reccomend any of the above.

Seduction techniques, IMHO are generally used AFTER you establish a line of contact, and a potential mutual attraction. Seducing random people is not as rewarding or anywhere near as promising as seducing someone you have carried through some conversations through.

if there was a single magic line that would work, this site would be futile, I certainly wouldn't be here, and I'd be at the playboy mansion instead of typing to you.

 

[Ragnar]

picture in your mind how you think you would act if you really did make all of those changes and then act as if you already had and just like magic you will be a changed person.

It is called the "act as if" principle from psyhcologist William James.

Good luck, bro.

 

[Brazilian_Blues_Boy]

BUY:

Introducing Neuro-Linguistic Programming - Joseph O' Connor & John Seymour
Frogs into Princes - Richard Bandler & John Grinder
Reframing - Richard Bandler & John Grinder

Read these 3 books in this particular order, and then you'll have the knowledge of HOW to get rid of these habits.

But, LISTEN :

The only thing that will control your success rate, and the speed of it, is YOURSELF ! Your OWN WILL !!

You can take a horse to the water, but you can't make it drink.
Same goes for you, you can have all the tools, but if you don't work hard you won't change yourself.

And, just one thing, these 'bad' habits, are not faults, and not things that must be forgotten, because if they were bad or not useful you wouldn't have learned at all.
With NLP, you'll have a choice of adding other behaviors, and use then use the ones you find more apropriated to each situation.

YOU ARE NOT BROKEN. YOU ARE NOT WRONG.

You are just choice-less. So far.

Buy those books. 50, 75 dollars is cheap for the life-changing content in there.

BBB

 

[HINDEMITH]

Rismoney, Ragner, Brazilian-Blues-Boy:
Many thanks for your advice. I will consider
all of what youv'e said in your replies.
Much appreciation. --- HINDEMITH

P.S. -- My user name is based on the 20th
century composer Paul Hindemith (1895-1963)
If you have a chance, listen to some of his
music. Many record stores (classical) have CDs
of his music. You're in for a great musical exper-
ience.

 

[Big-J]

FYI

SS/NLP means you have to talk to the girl, and with you being shy, it's not going to happen.

Just thought I'd point out a contradiction in your words.


Just read the bible, and that'll give you the info you need to help you pick up your b@lls and step up to the plate with a lot more confidence and conviction.