Overfishing

[Obsidian]

It seems that whenever you're in a small community of some sort (school, work, church, etc) and around a limited number of girls, you will eventually exhaust the possibilities a good bit. Then it gets to where you just keep trying to flirt with the same old girls (who have always given you weak signals) simply because they're the only ones around. When you've overfished certain waters, the only thing to do is move elsewhere...I can't find enough damned quality plates around to bother spinning. I really think this situation has been messing me up lately.

Does anyone else have problems like this?

My school only has about 2000 people and this is my third year there. Thankfully I'll be graduating in a few months so I can get away from it all...

 

[Georgey]

yep, in the gym, in a park, in a cafe, clubs...

 

[Snow Plowman]

2000 people?

So you've approached all those girls yet? (Assume 50% is girls) Did you approach 1000 women?

Remember approach medicore girls too, because most of it is just practice.

 

[Obsidian]

not all 1000, but I think I've come close to exhausting the list of potential people who actually share common interests with me.

Also, a lot of the people I haven't met yet are 2 or 3 grades below me, and in my experience those girls are a pain to deal with -- real immature.

 

[Docs]

Man..my school was 1200. There were 6 high schools. I lived in a city of I dunno...113000.

Be more specific!

 

[Jay Jay]

I know how to operate by a quota... but my boys GRRR

Yeah, I've been in similar situations. In fact me and a few freinds stumbled upon a fountain of babes that kept giving. This "organisation" (I'm not going to tell you where this gold mine is coz I'm greedy!) has a pretty steady turn over of hotties. But enough stick around so that the "scene" stays the same.

I've been fishing this pond for five years with good results. I don't get greedy, I don't do 2 girls from this pond at the same time, I play it real cool and I NEVER play these girls. I've got (had!) a damn good reputation there.

I was massively social proofed; I was a guy who slept with a lot of girls (ie got the attraction of the stud) but was still a great guy (ie they could sleep with me without being a slut).

But I have always had to contest with a bunch of ****s who see this pond teeming with quality fish and get all excited and pull out the driftnet and start trying to trawl the **** out of the lake. Massively AFC but convinced they are alpha (then spin out when little old me grabs the alpha female haha!)

This of course makes the girls all go to ground, get defensive and turn their ASD up full throttle.

I hate to admit this but one of my best friends is one of the worst offenders. He grasscuts like a muther****er, in fact nothing makes him like a girl as much as knowing the other boys like her and whilst I play it cool he goes in all guns blazing. He's chased away a couple of my secondary targets but I have managed to salvage the good ones.

He'll stick it in anything. What is worse is for a couple of hours/days/weeks/months he thinks she's "the one". Then another "one" comes along.

So he has left a trail of heartbroken babes.

Now I have managed this situation for a while with remarkable skill. I have managed to do my duty by him as a friend whilst still not being tainted by his sluttish immaturity.

But the ****er no longer even participates in the "organisation." He pretty much left when every girl knew to avoid him. But there has been a turn over and recently he tagged along to a gathering with me.

He banged one of the new girls who does not know his reputation. Then goes and pulls a massive shifty with another girl in such a way that I look like an accessory.

Now I have two options. I can go down with him or I can cut him free.

I'm sick of it, the ****er can burn on his own.

You gotta protect a good pool.

Sheesh that ended up being a long and involved rant. Sorry, I didn't realise how much I needed to vent.

JJ

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

When there is not enough food in the shallow waters of the ocean for the fish to eat they swim into the deeper waters.
As I have always said, losers sarge the many slvts of the nightclubs and bars, wimps continue to sarge the same babes in the shallow waters, wusses never sarge at all, though PUA AlphaMales sarge the hospital car parks, the shopping malls, the beaches, wherever there are hot babes who are not being sarged, they are continuously cold approaching them, this is my suggestion unto you. :yes:

 

[Obsidian]

interesting suggestion

 

[Mjazz]

so jay jay was it a sorority? I know what you mean Obsidian, its like once you been at the same school and know everyone, your pool is dry. Luckily for me, I layed low sophmore and junior year, and now senior year the girls are mine.