"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Over thinking this?

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The_Wolf

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*All done in text messages*.

She asks me if I wanna go grab something to eat on Friday. (this was this Sunday).

Today, I tell her I'll be there around 8 (b/c of train..).
She asks if I can come earlier.
I asked if she got other plans.
She does, Unofficially. But "**** (me) comes first :) "
I tell her Damn Right..and that I may be able to get there around 7.
She asks what do I want to do.
I answer "we'll see when I get there :) "


Should I be worried about those other plans? I know I should not, and probably won't be. But its still in the back of my mind...that she may have other plans...

Basically looking for opinions on this..

Thanks guys.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mrRuckus

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be so goddamn awesome that she doesn't think twice about the other plans
 
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A girl will flake if she's not interested. Conversely, if she's interested, she WILL show up, or have a legit excuse (in which cause, usually comes with a counter-offer)
 
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Jay Jay

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Overthinking? No way!

You are being downright paranoid. She says you come first!

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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