My parents are after me to go to these summer school type things at universities to give me direction (I'm in my junior year of high school) for college and my life. I'm not a troubled youth or have bad grades or anything, but I don't want to waste my summer. They want me to pick something else to do during the summer. What are you guys doing this summer if you know and do you have any suggestions?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Over the Summer
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Neg hit them, run blow job pattern and do a little speed seduction... that should do it.
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You could always just get a summer job. Sadly I do have to take summer classes this year 
, so I prolly won't get to work too much.
, so I prolly won't get to work too much.