"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alright so if you been following my threads then you know about my second block gym class. Just recently I exchanged number with the 3rd girl from that class, but today I actually ended up exchanging numbers with the 4th girl from that class. I got a nice body, but I don't think this is just from my looks (well atleast I hope my personality has something to do with it). Is 4 girls too much for one class? Considering one has a boyfriend so there is really only 3 options for me. 1 has a relationship that's pretty shakey, the next one is all over me. The third one is a work in progress and the fourth one seemed like she just litup when I presented her with the opportunity to hang out with me.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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can u ever get enough numbers?
 

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getting numbers doesn't really mean sh!t. Call them up, hang out and see if you can do something meaningful. Until you do, you can get all of the girls numbers in your class and it won't mean anything.
 

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GuanYu said:
getting numbers doesn't really mean sh!t. Call them up, hang out and see if you can do something meaningful. Until you do, you can get all of the girls numbers in your class and it won't mean anything.
I hung out with one today for a little bit. I think maybe tomorrow to. I'm liking this. I do this so openly, in front of them and they are all without a single complaint. Single girls are awesome.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why would they complain? From the sounds of it, they wouldn't have a reason to complain. You haven't fvcked either of them yet. Once you get their juices flowing and they're into you at all then they'll start being jealous. Don't expect them to do anything just because you got their numbers. They give their numbers to anyone, especially classmates. It's a part of school etiquette pretty much.
 

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GuanYu said:
Why would they complain? From the sounds of it, they wouldn't have a reason to complain. You haven't fvcked either of them yet. Once you get their juices flowing and they're into you at all then they'll start being jealous. Don't expect them to do anything just because you got their numbers. They give their numbers to anyone, especially classmates. It's a part of school etiquette pretty much.
Well, your exactly right. They don't have anything to complain about. However this class just started. I have literally just met every single one of these girls. We only been in this class for maybe 3 weeks now. When things get beyond the point of this though then I can see where problems could arise if I make the wrong moves. I can't be greedy in this situation and need to handle it delicately. 4 weeks down the road I don't think I'm gonna be able to still be able to treat all of them as equals.

Girl #1 - Nothing, potential future maybe. She seems really cool. She's taken at the moment but I catch her staring at me a lot.

#2 - This girl I've done the minor stuff with kissing and hugs. Plans to hang out

#3 - Has been calling me a bit today trying to make plans

#4 - Got her number today, hung out with her today. She smoked me up. Were gonna hang out again this week. She seemed happy. She seems interested. I could get with any of these last 3 in reality.
 

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Spent the night with girl number 4.

Made out and fingered this other girl in my car today.

Kissed my ex-girlfriend

Girl #2 grabbed my package during gym class today

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There's my action for the day
 

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That'a boy! Keep them plates spinning. :)
 

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Haha you have nothing to be complaining about and niether do they.

I say the more potentials the better, And that doesn't change with the logistics of the situation (such as all of them being in the same class).

A sneaky thing to do is invite all of your potentials to the same thing (party, club event, etc.) and interact with all of them.

Each one of them will realize they are competing for you and have to step up their game by being extra flirty/ slvtty.

Its like dynamite in a fish tank at that point.

sit back and watch them compete for you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Honestly I saw girl #1 look at me right before she kissed her boyfriend. She actually looks at me a lot when she's around him.
 
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