"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Over Saturation or Success?

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Alright so if you been following my threads then you know about my second block gym class. Just recently I exchanged number with the 3rd girl from that class, but today I actually ended up exchanging numbers with the 4th girl from that class. I got a nice body, but I don't think this is just from my looks (well atleast I hope my personality has something to do with it). Is 4 girls too much for one class? Considering one has a boyfriend so there is really only 3 options for me. 1 has a relationship that's pretty shakey, the next one is all over me. The third one is a work in progress and the fourth one seemed like she just litup when I presented her with the opportunity to hang out with me.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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can u ever get enough numbers?
 

GuanYu

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getting numbers doesn't really mean sh!t. Call them up, hang out and see if you can do something meaningful. Until you do, you can get all of the girls numbers in your class and it won't mean anything.
 

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GuanYu said:
getting numbers doesn't really mean sh!t. Call them up, hang out and see if you can do something meaningful. Until you do, you can get all of the girls numbers in your class and it won't mean anything.
I hung out with one today for a little bit. I think maybe tomorrow to. I'm liking this. I do this so openly, in front of them and they are all without a single complaint. Single girls are awesome.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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GuanYu

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Why would they complain? From the sounds of it, they wouldn't have a reason to complain. You haven't fvcked either of them yet. Once you get their juices flowing and they're into you at all then they'll start being jealous. Don't expect them to do anything just because you got their numbers. They give their numbers to anyone, especially classmates. It's a part of school etiquette pretty much.
 

Dante420

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GuanYu said:
Why would they complain? From the sounds of it, they wouldn't have a reason to complain. You haven't fvcked either of them yet. Once you get their juices flowing and they're into you at all then they'll start being jealous. Don't expect them to do anything just because you got their numbers. They give their numbers to anyone, especially classmates. It's a part of school etiquette pretty much.
Well, your exactly right. They don't have anything to complain about. However this class just started. I have literally just met every single one of these girls. We only been in this class for maybe 3 weeks now. When things get beyond the point of this though then I can see where problems could arise if I make the wrong moves. I can't be greedy in this situation and need to handle it delicately. 4 weeks down the road I don't think I'm gonna be able to still be able to treat all of them as equals.

Girl #1 - Nothing, potential future maybe. She seems really cool. She's taken at the moment but I catch her staring at me a lot.

#2 - This girl I've done the minor stuff with kissing and hugs. Plans to hang out

#3 - Has been calling me a bit today trying to make plans

#4 - Got her number today, hung out with her today. She smoked me up. Were gonna hang out again this week. She seemed happy. She seems interested. I could get with any of these last 3 in reality.
 

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Spent the night with girl number 4.

Made out and fingered this other girl in my car today.

Kissed my ex-girlfriend

Girl #2 grabbed my package during gym class today

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There's my action for the day
 

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That'a boy! Keep them plates spinning. :)
 

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Haha you have nothing to be complaining about and niether do they.

I say the more potentials the better, And that doesn't change with the logistics of the situation (such as all of them being in the same class).

A sneaky thing to do is invite all of your potentials to the same thing (party, club event, etc.) and interact with all of them.

Each one of them will realize they are competing for you and have to step up their game by being extra flirty/ slvtty.

Its like dynamite in a fish tank at that point.

sit back and watch them compete for you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Honestly I saw girl #1 look at me right before she kissed her boyfriend. She actually looks at me a lot when she's around him.
 
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