"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Over-rated beauties

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Skel

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wootapotky said:
Underrated: Kristin Kreuk-sooooo hot
Mandy Moore
Rachel Bilson
Rachel McAdams
Sienna Miller

Overrated: Jessica Simpson-Looks like a man
Paris Hilton-absolutely disgusting looking
Jessica Alba-manly shoulders
Eva Longoria- Nothing special in the face department. In fact she looks very similar to a friend of mine.
Keira Knightley- Strange face, not a good body
Mischa Barton-Weird face
Heidi Klum-looks like a man
Halle Berry-Kind of a strange face

I agree with all except Jessica Alba. Shes atleast a 9 in my book.
 

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Yeah, whats with all this attention with Paris Hilton?

shes nothing special, and spoiled to boot, but she gets drooled over by most every guy.
 

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Shes got a messed up face, no tits, no ass, ditzy attitude, probably *****y (though I havent seen her in many shows or anything, I'll assume she fits the mold and is stuck-up and *****y), absolutely nothing going for her besides her family fortune (she certainly wont be running her family business some day. without the "Hilton" name, she'd be an LA prostitute) yet shes hailed as some kind of goddess
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah actually you're right about Mcadams, now that I've looked at some more pictures of her I've realized she's got a very angular face. But Vida Guerra I think is way overrated.
 
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