Over one or two years no contact broken. What to do?

[SharinganUser]

Over a year ago (or two years I can't remember) I hooked up (fooled around but did not have s!x) with this beautiful chick. Then I lost contact with her because she was in a relationship. Yesterday, I log into my skype account for the first time in two years because my sister lives in NZ and I needed to contact my family to see if she is ok (she's fine). And an hour after I finish that, this girl from two years ago skypes me asking how I am doing and if I went back to my home country (I am in China but live in Canada). I told her yes I went back home but now I am back in China, and she said if I come to her city I can visit her.

Now I am thinking about if I really want to go and visit her. I am not sure about her interest levels or even if she is single. I have no reason to go to the city except to stick my dik in her. It might be fun to go for a couple days though and see what happens.

 

[Diaforetikos]

Do it for that reason only. But seeing the information I've read on here, your most likely gonna get all AFC on us.

Remind yourself what your going down there for (assuming you do go down there.) Don't wonder if she is interested. Assume she is, and act accordingly.

And always remember, do what you wanna do. You don't have to come here asking if you should all the time. Life is trial and error, so go make mistakes.

 

[SharinganUser]

Do it for that reason only. But seeing the information I've read on here, your most likely gonna get all AFC on us.

Remind yourself what your going down there for (assuming you do go down there.) Don't wonder if she is interested. Assume she is, and act accordingly.

And always remember, do what you wanna do. You don't have to come here asking if you should all the time. Life is trial and error, so go make mistakes.

Thank you for the input. I'll probably head down there this weekend.

 

[SharinganUser]

Update: I didn't go to see the girl because I am sick and have some plans coming up that I don't want to miss.

I just got off of skype with her and she said she really wants to see me again. So I told her that I can't go right now because I have plans to go to another city. She said I could visit her when I come back. To which I said "cool, I can stay with you." She told me she has the appartment all to her self until her "friend" gets back. I asked if her friend is a local or a foreigner(like me). She said "foreigner." I am thinking it's her boyfriend so I didn't ask any more questions.

So anyway, I am going to hook up with her in about two weeks from now.

 

[SharinganUser]

Just finished Skyping with her. It was a little strange and I would like some feedback. Please keep in mind that she is Chinese and her English is not perfect.


[22:39:18] HB: Have you booked flight?

[22:39:35] SharinganUser: yes

[22:40:06] SharinganUser: I will arrive on the 13th at midnight

[22:40:26] HB: Ok, what time? I will go to airport to meet you

[22:40:36] SharinganUser: midnight

[22:40:59] HB: Midnight? What time?

[22:41:26] SharinganUser: 12am
[22:41:59] SharinganUser: 00:05
[22:42:26] SharinganUser: understand

[22:42:57] HB: Omg, I will check if there is a bus then

[22:43:18] SharinganUser: hehe
[22:44:26] SharinganUser: It is a late flight

[22:45:08] HB: Yes it is late

[22:45:33] SharinganUser: What can we do in Shenzhen?

[22:46:21] HB: You've been to Shenzhen right?

[22:46:55] SharinganUser: Yes, but only a few days so I didn't see anything.
[22:47:35] SharinganUser: Hangzhou was really beautiful

[22:47:48] HB: Cos there is nothing to c here, some parks
[22:48:03] HB: Yes, it is

[22:48:10] SharinganUser: I think we can find something to do.

[22:48:18] HB: I love Hangzhou
[22:48:28] HB: Like what?

[22:49:47] SharinganUser: like in hainan,
[22:50:01] SharinganUser: and guangzhou

[22:50:24] HB: What did we do?

[22:50:49] SharinganUser: You don't remember?
[22:50:51] SharinganUser:

[22:52:49] HB: You have to sleep in sofa this time

[22:53:08] SharinganUser: ok
[22:53:38] SharinganUser: You don't like me anymore?

[22:54:49] HB: Of course I like you

[22:55:05] SharinganUser: I know, I am just joking

[22:55:52] HB: You just come to traval
[22:56:22] HB: Travail
[22:56:33] HB: This time

[22:58:44] SharinganUser: Is there some good night life in Shenzhen?
[23:00:41] SharinganUser: ??

[23:00:42] HB: There are some bars here, but I don't really know, cos I never go out at night

[23:02:14] SharinganUser: well what do you do for fun then?

[23:03:07] HB: Read books, surfing online, watch tv, sleep

[23:04:17] HB: Talk on the phone or online with friends

[23:04:40] SharinganUser: You have friends in Shen Zhen?

[23:06:08] HB: Yes, not many, I talk on line with my bf in the midnight , do you mind?

[23:07:24] SharinganUser: ok,
[23:08:04] SharinganUser: you mean now???
[23:08:07] SharinganUser: :S

[23:08:29] HB: He is in UK now

[23:09:10] SharinganUser: yes, you told me before.
[23:09:17] SharinganUser: Why is he in UK?

[23:09:33] HB: But he will be back the end of this month or first next month
[23:09:49] HB: Cos he is English

[23:12:21] SharinganUser: Your sofa is big? Maybe I can't fit on it. I am tall you know.

[23:14:36] HB: You can stay in bed with me, but you cant do anything to me, ok?

[23:15:04] SharinganUser: ok,

[23:15:27] HB: Ok then

[23:16:26] SharinganUser: You can't do anything to me either. Deal?

[23:16:45] HB: Ha, deal

[23:18:23] SharinganUser: ok then we are in agreement.

[23:18:46] HB: I guess so

[23:19:43] SharinganUser: Even if it is difficult for you to not do anything to me, please remember the deal.

[23:20:15] HB: Ha, you are funny

[23:20:44] SharinganUser: I know
[23:21:14] SharinganUser: It's part of my charm.

[23:21:59] HB: Ha tell me more about your charm then
[23:22:14] HB: The other parts

[23:23:15] SharinganUser: Maybe later. I have to get going. It was good talking to you again.

[23:23:43] HB: Ok, I will wait you then
[23:24:03] SharinganUser: Ok, good night.
[23:24:23] HB: Good night, have fun there!
[23:24:35] SharinganUser: Oh I will
[23:24:39] SharinganUser: Bye bye ]
[23:24:42] SharinganUser:
[23:24:50] HB: Bye

 

[iliketennis]

nice work!

 

[Masculinity]

You are sooo gonna hit that! A chick that lets you sleep next to her on the same bed is a chick that wants you to bone her.

 

[ARrocket]

[22:48:10] SharinganUser: I think we can find something to do.

[22:48:18] HB: I love Hangzhou
[22:48:28] HB: Like what?

[22:49:47] SharinganUser: like in hainan,
[22:50:01] SharinganUser: and guangzhou

[22:50:24] HB: What did we do?

[22:50:49] SharinganUser: You don't remember?
[22:50:51] SharinganUser:

[22:52:49] HB: You have to sleep in sofa this time

I personally don't like this part of the conversation. I find that when I make references to coming over to have sex with a girl, things usually go sour. She already knows it's what's going to (possibly) happen, so no need to put it out there like that.

But you seemed to rebound decently. Take her out, have some drinks, and be bold.

 

[neghitzbrah]

Nice work bro. Bailed at the top of the convo... shes prolly thinking about u right now!