Over-gaming

[youngprodigy]

this is a topic that’s rarely every discussed on the forum but I think it’s worth going into.

For guys who are picking up chicks that are of higher status than them, they’ve gotta game and play the right cards to get into their pants.

But for the guys that were naturally good looking, work out, have game, and a lotta social proof, there’s such a thing as over gaming.

During high school the concept did not exist at all, if you were simply social proofed you can easily get laid. With college and university it’s hard to meet new girls through your social circle so you’re left having to talk to them in class or around campus.

I’m pretty good with gaming girls that I meet through other people but struggle gaming girls I meet throughout the day (taking a break from the girls I’ve met during nightlife) at places such as the gym, school and at the mall.

My problem is that I come off too aggressive and in a way over-game these girls making them wonder “if this guy gives off this aura that he gets so many girls, why is he trying so hard”. I’ve been told by a lot of girls that I give this aura off. My problem is that I can’t apply the same approaches that are broadcasted on this forum on the girls I meet (other than the red-pill ideologies).

I used to rarely initiate first contact and act like I don’t give a flying feather about them, but I noticed that this just intimidates most of the More attractive women as they fear the risk of being shot down, which would hurt their egos. This helped me attract girls up to hb7’s during the day but now I’ve decided to allocate all my efforts in meeting and talking to the hottest girls I can find

So my question is, for the guys who can relate to me, what different tactics do you use to day game girls without over-gaming them? Much appreciated.

 

[way2smart]

There’s no such thing as over gaming. A girl who is interested in you enough will not care about you gaming or not.

You can’t apply game when you are initiating first contact.

She either likes you and gives you her number or she doesn’t and rejects you. It’s as simple as that.

And from my experience if a girl really likes you, it doesn’t really matter what you say when you approach her.

 

[Macaframalama]

You can definitely put girls off, that would have otherwise been into you. The best way is appearing arrogant. We've all met chicks that have been super attractive, until they open their mouth. I personally won't fvck with a chic that has nothing to say about others, than chit talk and putting others down to make herself appear better. IDGAF how hot she is. And on the other side of the coin, I've sold myself to women that were admittedly on the fence initially. Anyways, I got out of my last relationship of two years, I had a little trouble initiating contact day gaming. It wasn't fear, rather a lack of awareness of my surroundings. I just started getting out of my head and being more aware and using my senses and talking to everybody. Even little ol' grannies at the grocery store and having as many friendly interactions as possible. The type that have you leaving the interaction smiling. I can't tell you how many times I've left one and turn the corner down the next isle and run into a hottie. They usually shoot one right back instantly. It's just instinctual and makes the approach that much more effortless. Day game to me is just more about awareness of what's going on around me and the intricate details and taking a more laid back approach.

 

[fastlife]

If you are already conveying high value (which is a huge portion of what Game is to begin with), then think of it like cooking a quality cut of meat: You add some seasoning here & there, but too much & you ruin the dish. However, no one becomes a cook without burning some sh1t or overseasoning & underseasoning from time to time lol--so give yourself some range of experimentation .

I do alright these days with a more laconic, laidback approach--generally act unimpressed & unreactive & then drop some emotional spikes here and there. I've done alright in the past with really out there stuff. Find an approach that works for you or, better yet, one that's fun & feels natural. Probably the most important part of Game (and one of the most neglected), after strong eye contact, good tonality, and being comfortable in your own skin, is being able to sexualize, lead, and figure out logistics. Go a little lighter on the push-pull stuff & focus on that.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

There’s no such thing as over gaming.

Wrong.

You can definitely put girls off, that would have otherwise been into you.

Correct.