Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Wrong-headed as much of what this chick has to say is on many other subjects, on the following point...mentally and emotionally sane...
I wasn't around in the '50s, but I did get to experience most of the '60s, and I'll say this: This is nothing like the '50s.The bitter irony of all this is, that from 2016-The Present, we've essentially been in a social climate which very closely mirrors The 1950s in terms of it's repressiveness. And this has sucked s-it through a f-cking straw!!!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Well now, that is reminiscent of The 60sPretty hard to derail a thread that has no direction to begin with...
A low education level in your late teens could still get you a job which salary allowed you to buy a house by your late 20s, feed yourself, get married and have kids while feedng all of them and still be able to save.
Yes, but at least the nerdy Beta male could get a woman then.The bitter irony of all this is, that from 2016-The Present, we've essentially been in a social climate which very closely mirrors The 1950s in terms of it's repressiveness. And this has sucked s-it through a f-cking straw!!!
The Nostalgiacels have had their wish for awhile now, and they're still somehow even more miserable than the rest of us
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yeah, he ended up with a vicious harpy like Carol StarkYes, but at least the nerdy Beta male could get a woman then.![]()
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Hi Fortune,Imagine a guy born in 1950.
No memory or sacrificies from the world war II, amazing demographics, low crime rate, economy was doing fine and ready to get even better for decades.
A low education level in your late teens could still get you a job which salary allowed you to buy a house by your late 20s, feed yourself, get married and have kids while feedng all of them and still be able to save.
Your wife was thin and probably saw no D beside yours, mentally and emotionally sane, you could live your life easily with no risk of being mugged, bombed or being involved in a conflict while your wife and kids had all the reasons to behave because not only society and the law didnt suppor such actions but those were also shamed and punished.
If you wanted to walk the extra mile and work hard, improve your education and tolerate extra stress (lets say the basic level for a current day man), you could easily climb the ladder and get wealthy.
Fast forward to 2024 that same guy now rich in his 70s would be totally convinced that modern day men are lazy, dumb and pvssies.
"All you have to do is grow a pair, knock some door and dont be a loser...getting a job and a hot woman has never been so easy".
Some of the replies on this thread thus far:Hi Barren One,
I don't really think we have any serious opposition to Cornbreads post...Where are the 50's Nostalgiacs?I don't know any.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I didn't write any of that, but was merely quoting another post on this threadHi Barren One,
"Imagine a guy born in 1950.
No memory or sacrificies from the world war II, amazing demographics, low crime rate, economy was doing fine and ready to get even better for decades".
Sorry to be argumentative,but you are a little misguided on some of this...No memories of WW2:When we went to London in the early fifties,one quarter of the inner City was bombed out,destroyed,as a child going to the Orthodentist,I remember the bus ride from North London to Gt Ormande St,for the last five miles,from St Johns Wood to St Pauls,virtually every house was burnt out,coming to StPauls,you could see the great dome from half a mile away as the City was just flattened...Who had to rebuild it?Where was the material to come from?...Forget about us,compared to Rotterdam,Warsaw or St Petersburg we got off light...Demographics?I suppose it all comes back to svex huh?...So for young blokes,sure they easily found a Girl,pretty difficult to screw her though,because accommodation was very,very tight,where do you do it?In your Parents Lounge Room?Only the very rich had Cars and they couldn't drive them on a Petrol ration of one gallon a week...Sure they had a Great Coat and could do it in the park outside,but it gets awful chilly in the Winter time...The crime rate was indeed very low that is true....The economy was for many pretty shocking,sure there was work,and how!,but remember for us there were endless Wars,Palestine,Korea,Malaya,Kenya,Cyprus,the Berlin Air Lift....What little of the massive investments we had in the World after fighting a long war we had to eat up in the hungry years that followed it....No nostalgia for me!
Presumably, Esther Villar https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Manipulated_Man , who was born in 1935 and came of age in The 1950s, witnessed the perks of womanhood during that decade for herselfOn fetlife, there is a long list of fetish fantasies people can say interest them, one of which is "1950s Household." It's more women than men who check that box.
She may have settled for this sort of guyYes, but at least the nerdy Beta male could get a woman then.![]()
My buddy used to hook up with a lot of chicks on fetlife is it really a hookup spot still?On fetlife, there is a long list of fetish fantasies people can say interest them, one of which is "1950s Household." It's more women than men who check that box.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.