"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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over analysing and relationship

Zerotwoonenine

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hey guys, i have been DJ for a year and have being going out with my GF for 6 month now.
I have found an underlying problem with sosuave, thing is, since most of us senior and master DJs are addicted to self improvement and Djing, you build up your knowledge so much that everymove she makes, you know how to test her, how to deal with her etc, its all good...
To a point.
Let me explain-i have found that DJ techniques are very good at the chasing stage(dating) before you actually seize the kill, but most of us often forget that when we have seized the kill, we dont need to over analyze any more, if you get any red flags(e.g if her interest lvl get below green zone), fine enough, make a move and start doing something about it, but when you have being with your GF for more than few month, stop analyzing so much, because it leads to INSECURITY and NEEDyINESS, which are the two biggest sources of relationship killer.
Most of the time, we dig our own grave by over analysing, i mean fine enough, anlyze if she does any thing suspicous, but most of the time, just roll with it bros, after you have seized the kill, continue to be the man that she fell for, dont get insecure and dont get wimpy because that will lead to your desturction.
So if you are in a health relationship, lay back, you will be fine, stop getting addicted to sosuave and over analyzing, that will take over your life,destroy her interest rate and leave you miserable.
Good luck bros, may your all find hapiness as i have.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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