"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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over analysing and relationship

Zerotwoonenine

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hey guys, i have been DJ for a year and have being going out with my GF for 6 month now.
I have found an underlying problem with sosuave, thing is, since most of us senior and master DJs are addicted to self improvement and Djing, you build up your knowledge so much that everymove she makes, you know how to test her, how to deal with her etc, its all good...
To a point.
Let me explain-i have found that DJ techniques are very good at the chasing stage(dating) before you actually seize the kill, but most of us often forget that when we have seized the kill, we dont need to over analyze any more, if you get any red flags(e.g if her interest lvl get below green zone), fine enough, make a move and start doing something about it, but when you have being with your GF for more than few month, stop analyzing so much, because it leads to INSECURITY and NEEDyINESS, which are the two biggest sources of relationship killer.
Most of the time, we dig our own grave by over analysing, i mean fine enough, anlyze if she does any thing suspicous, but most of the time, just roll with it bros, after you have seized the kill, continue to be the man that she fell for, dont get insecure and dont get wimpy because that will lead to your desturction.
So if you are in a health relationship, lay back, you will be fine, stop getting addicted to sosuave and over analyzing, that will take over your life,destroy her interest rate and leave you miserable.
Good luck bros, may your all find hapiness as i have.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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