"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Over 50% of wives cheat

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Good. That puts you in the 0% bracket then.
 

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We had another thread going about this topic several months back, but I think it is well worthy of reposting.

Or better yet, making this a sticky.

Or both!

Guys need to see this, especially our younger/less experienced brothers that come here.

This is our reality men. Welcome to 2014.
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
Very poorly put together article. Stats pulled from thin air, and an analysis of a whopping......3 women, used as main evidence. :crackup:

Give me a break. We have better things to focus on than this.

This is why I couldn't get married. With social media, tinder, and more freedom to women, I couldn't trust her at all. I would only get married to a stay at home mom or something.
CWAF Statement.

Conquer your fear, or forever be doomed to be ruled by it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm beginning to think that Exception is an advocate for female cheaters.
 

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Maybe that's why you should go for the female doctors, real workers that don't have time to cheat, etc...

but on the real tip...98% of men cheat.

if u don't, then that's all on u.

but throughout time men have had side plates...and it wasn't something terrible like OMG HES THE DEVIL. its more like, yea, he's handsome and is the shyt so take it or leave it.

and women would turn a blind eye or say stuff like," as long as I don't see it, it didn't happen".

the world is still our playground, you just need to put up or shut up and not be a baby expecting top quality pvssy to fall on ur lap like in the movies.
 

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What I find funny is guys complain women cheat... But meanwhile.. Those same guys are "spinning plates" ... Isn't that the same thing?

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
 

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What I find funny is guys complain women cheat... But meanwhile.. Those same guys are "spinning plates" ... Isn't that the same thing?

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
No, for the most part, "spinning plates" is referred to as dating multiple women while not being in an exclusive relationship with any of them.

A big problem is that guys don't spin plates prior to getting into a relationship with a woman. This distorts their view on the one particular woman they are dating, and therefore they have to resort to beta tactics in their "screening" process.

Man: Don't see other men while we're together.
Her: Okay

Man now knows he's not whith a "hor" and therefore she will never cheat on him.
 

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The LTR/marriage of 2014:

Man: "I promise I will not sleep with another woman"

Woman: "I promise I will not sleep with another man (until I find another man that I want to sleep with)"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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logicallefty said:
The LTR/marriage of 2014:

Man: "I promise I will not sleep with another woman"

Woman: "I promise I will not sleep with another man (until I find another man that I want to sleep with)"
Not in my marriage.... But then again my wife and I have some serious pair bonding having been together since 15 and 16.
 

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Danger said:
I am thinking the same. Basically if you take steps to protect yourself from a cheater, you are "insecure" or "fearful".
The difference lies in the approach to protecting yourself from a cheater. Exception, as well as other reality-dwellers like myself, realize that life is beyond your control and you can never know anything for a certainty. So we live for each day and do not make demands on how other people live. When you live freely and honestly then the woman will decide FOR HERSELF that she wants to be with only you, if she likes you that much.

The other approach is to be a psychotic, egotistical wreck who is constantly living in anxiety and fear, checking her phone, "why are you talking to him!", etc. - trying to force and coerce a woman to choose you, which of course doesnt work and makes you look like a needy little puppy.

Live your life comfortably and aloof, chill with girls when you want, let them try and reel you in. Or be an anxious, worried psycho. Which one sounds like a DJ to you?
 

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jurry said:
The other approach is to be a psychotic, egotistical wreck who is constantly living in anxiety and fear, checking her phone, "why are you talking to him!", etc. - trying to force and coerce a woman to choose you, which of course doesnt work and makes you look like a needy little puppy.
When you bring out a barrage of feeeel words and a strawman scenario your argument ain't looking too good sister.

Tell us again about "white privilege" and how much you hate those yucky 1950's housewives. I liked those stories better, you suck at this one.

btw I lol'd at you trying to sell a man's ego as a negative trait.
 

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Not disagreeing here, and now that I have been back out on the market and seeing how many married women on "ladies night" act like they are in b!tches in heat chasing after any decent looking guys at the clubs, well, ya, married women are cheating like mad crazy. I see this first hand every time I go to clubs.
 

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When you bring out a barrage of feeeel words and a strawman scenario your argument ain't looking too good sister.

Tell us again about "white privilege" and how much you hate those yucky 1950's housewives. I liked those stories better, you suck at this one.
If you want to ask me out why dont you just come out and say it mister tîts ;)

Edit from your edit: I do think it is a negative.. Do you not?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jurry said:
Edit from your edit: I do think it is a negative.. Do you not?
Oh noez he has an EGO. This is an outrage !!

Someone call the mediocrity police and lets get this crab back in the barrel. This is not the plan his Marxist handlers had for him :box:

jurry said:
If you want to ask me out why dont you just come out and say it mister tîts ;)
Send pics and we'll take it from there. Just so we're clear I don't do chicks with tatts and I already have one borderline plumper in my rotation so don't even bother if that's you.
 

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TheException said:
Very poorly put together article. Stats pulled from thin air, and an analysis of a whopping......3 women, used as main evidence. :crackup:

Give me a break. We have better things to focus on than this.


CWAF Statement.

Conquer your fear, or forever be doomed to be ruled by it.
He's actually right. We're so quick to question stats that support the feminist agenda, why not other MSM stats? Oh right, because they affirm our pre-formed conclusions.

"50% of wives cheat". Please. How is that even remotely verifiable. And even if it were true, that tell us nothing useful. Like you'll somehow be "safe" from infidelity if you don't marry.
 

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Colossus said:
He's actually right. We're so quick to question stats that support the feminist agenda, why not other MSM stats? Oh right, because they affirm our pre-formed conclusions.

"50% of wives cheat". Please. How is that even remotely verifiable. And even if it were true, that tell us nothing useful. Like you'll somehow be "safe" from infidelity if you don't marry.
My question is: What's the point of the article? Other than something to argue with feminists about. Why make a big deal about it on here?

So what, 50% of women cheat. What, should I now change my ways? Should I now somehow become a better "DJ"?

I don't care if it's 80% of women out there cheating. I consider myself able to stick with the 20% category.


If anything this article should wake up some of the Fear based "DJ's" on this thread.....the glass half empty guys that blame everything in the world but themselves. This article means that 50% of women don't cheat.

:up: :up: :up:

If you live and die by what usually said on this forum then that is great news.
 

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Danger said:
First off, I agree we should question all data.

However, given women's propensity for branch-swinging, and the 50% divorce rate along with women filing for 75% of divorces.....50% cheating doesn't seem that far off, does it?
Danger,

I agree with you that we can looks to stats - with a sufficient sample size - to make informed opinions.

With that said, and I apologize to this thread for the tangent, I was wondering if you will change your stance on the Duke Lacrosse Team?

Only 2% of rape accusations are unfounded [source].

Not 50%. A mere two percent!

So you are saying that, based on stats, it is safe to assume that about 50% of women are guilty of cheating. Using that logic, don't you also have to assume that 98% of men accused of rape are guilty?
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
http://abcnews.go.com/2020/story?id=124040

This is why I couldn't get married. With social media, tinder, and more freedom to women, I couldn't trust her at all. I would only get married to a stay at home mom or something.
The article should say "Less than 50 percent of women are able to stay faithful to their husbands."
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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