Outstanding lesson in body language

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Atom Smasher

Master Don Juan

Apr 10, 2010

I can't believe this demonstration of good body language is coming from this twinkie judge on "Dancing With The Stars", but I think this really is a supurb demonstration. Notice the tight-fitting clothes, the legs spread apart, the ownage of his space and the generally "open" demeanor.

http://popwatch.ew.com/2010/04/08/bruno-tonioli-on-kate-gosselin-shes-dreadful/

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.