I was going over the idea of holding a DJ workshop... NOT because I'm qualified to hold one as yet, but because I'd like to sometime, it'd be a hell of a lot of fun - and (mainly) because I find it a useful exercise in learning to imagine how you would teach what you know to someone else. So, think of the following thread as a mental exercise. Pitch in if you want.
I don't mean throw the DJ bible at them. I'm thinking, break the whole up into individual areas that need work on and tackle it systematically and fully.
LIMITING BELIEFS/MINDSET
DESPERATION/SEXUALITY
FEAR/NARCISSISM/SELF CONSCIOUSNESS
SOCIAL DYNAMIC/TECHNIQUES
LIMITING BELIEFS/MINDSET
Women love sex. Any guy, with the right mindset, can have ANY woman (ideally). - Present solid, undeniable proof; testimonies of amazing seducers and women who love sex.
Optimism.
Fun as the focus.
Youthfulness (like Pook's "fountain of youth" post, check it out, it's worth your time).
The difference between a DJ and a PUA and why this is a "DJ WORKSHOP" (As the opening speech).
Be a man, chase your dreams. Finding your path or purpose in life (from Deangelo's Mastery series). "Live laugh love, in that order" (Pook)
DESPERATION/SEXUALITY
It's like a spectrum, with desperation on one end and sexuality on the other. First you must kill your desperation and only then can you channel your sexual energy and become a Real Man.
Desperation: Sex isn't so great, you can service yourself well enough without a chick, no amount of sex and attention is worth losing your SELF RESPECT.
Sexuality: studying James Bond; how a sexual, confident man behaves; see the beauty in the woman and telegraph your desire through your eyes.
WANT IT BUT DON'T NEED IT.
FEAR/NARCISSISM/SELF CONSCIOUSNESS
I put these together because I believe fear and narcissism go hand in hand. Hell, fear is the cause of almost all bad stuff. I detailed in a previous post that when you realise that the universe doesn't actually revolve around you, you lose your fear. Self consciousness is fear. The opposite of fear is confidence.
That it's okay to say what you want, do what you want, think what you want, want what you want. If someone doesn't like that, they can get stuffed - and that's where narcissism would stop you, you think that that could actually MATTER, that the person could really be affected by what you do. They'd forget by the end of the week anyway.
If you do what you want, and act like you have every right to do it, other people naturally assume that you are the authority and what you do is acceptable. Whoever has the strongest reality wins. You can get away with anything if you do it with enough authority. (Rick H)
This is where the boot camp theory comes in. Every lesson and every homework will involve an increasing level of "staring your fear in the eye", be it talking to strangers, eyecontact, asking for phone numbers etc. This is a great thing about a live workshop, you get peer pressure and motivation. The penultimate one could be going to fifty strangers and "get to the point", and we'd see how many people find themselves sluts who'll f'uck them. Talk about blasting limiting beliefs. For the last one, I liked what (forgotten which DJ) did: he stood overlooking the mall and, with everyone in the mall there, yelled "FREEDOM!!!" as loud as he could. (When I have the guts to do that, maybe I'll be ready to lead a workshop).
SOCIAL DYNAMIC/TECHNIQUES
Some (not a lot of) pick up stuff from Mystery; ****y and funny (bring it in early - I see C&F as a crutch to help learners experience how it feels to be a confident, ballsy guy and settle into that mould). Emulating the language/body language/actions of confident men (study the James Bond movies and "Don Juan DeMarco").
I don't mean throw the DJ bible at them. I'm thinking, break the whole up into individual areas that need work on and tackle it systematically and fully.
LIMITING BELIEFS/MINDSET
DESPERATION/SEXUALITY
FEAR/NARCISSISM/SELF CONSCIOUSNESS
SOCIAL DYNAMIC/TECHNIQUES
LIMITING BELIEFS/MINDSET
Women love sex. Any guy, with the right mindset, can have ANY woman (ideally). - Present solid, undeniable proof; testimonies of amazing seducers and women who love sex.
Optimism.
Fun as the focus.
Youthfulness (like Pook's "fountain of youth" post, check it out, it's worth your time).
The difference between a DJ and a PUA and why this is a "DJ WORKSHOP" (As the opening speech).
Be a man, chase your dreams. Finding your path or purpose in life (from Deangelo's Mastery series). "Live laugh love, in that order" (Pook)
DESPERATION/SEXUALITY
It's like a spectrum, with desperation on one end and sexuality on the other. First you must kill your desperation and only then can you channel your sexual energy and become a Real Man.
Desperation: Sex isn't so great, you can service yourself well enough without a chick, no amount of sex and attention is worth losing your SELF RESPECT.
Sexuality: studying James Bond; how a sexual, confident man behaves; see the beauty in the woman and telegraph your desire through your eyes.
WANT IT BUT DON'T NEED IT.
FEAR/NARCISSISM/SELF CONSCIOUSNESS
I put these together because I believe fear and narcissism go hand in hand. Hell, fear is the cause of almost all bad stuff. I detailed in a previous post that when you realise that the universe doesn't actually revolve around you, you lose your fear. Self consciousness is fear. The opposite of fear is confidence.
That it's okay to say what you want, do what you want, think what you want, want what you want. If someone doesn't like that, they can get stuffed - and that's where narcissism would stop you, you think that that could actually MATTER, that the person could really be affected by what you do. They'd forget by the end of the week anyway.
If you do what you want, and act like you have every right to do it, other people naturally assume that you are the authority and what you do is acceptable. Whoever has the strongest reality wins. You can get away with anything if you do it with enough authority. (Rick H)
This is where the boot camp theory comes in. Every lesson and every homework will involve an increasing level of "staring your fear in the eye", be it talking to strangers, eyecontact, asking for phone numbers etc. This is a great thing about a live workshop, you get peer pressure and motivation. The penultimate one could be going to fifty strangers and "get to the point", and we'd see how many people find themselves sluts who'll f'uck them. Talk about blasting limiting beliefs. For the last one, I liked what (forgotten which DJ) did: he stood overlooking the mall and, with everyone in the mall there, yelled "FREEDOM!!!" as loud as he could. (When I have the guts to do that, maybe I'll be ready to lead a workshop).
SOCIAL DYNAMIC/TECHNIQUES
Some (not a lot of) pick up stuff from Mystery; ****y and funny (bring it in early - I see C&F as a crutch to help learners experience how it feels to be a confident, ballsy guy and settle into that mould). Emulating the language/body language/actions of confident men (study the James Bond movies and "Don Juan DeMarco").
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