"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Outed ex-gf's whoring to her father

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No you do it
Insecure move? Probably so, but I could imagine some scenarios where I would do this.

Some women can be downright mean. I would never hit a woman, but I also don't believe in karma - I believe that if a bully is walking around picking on people, they need to be punched in the mouth. Sending an email to her dad would just replace the punch.
You do it out of respect as a man, I have daughters myself. I wasnt just using his daughter either. She doing stuff that can get her or family members hurt.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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No you do it


You do it out of respect as a man, I have daughters myself. I wasnt just using his daughter either. She doing stuff that can get her or family members hurt.
I have a daughter. If anything ne did some turd move like OPs, I might use it as a discussion item with her. But I would d finitely tell her not to hang out with immature losers.
 

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No you do it
Insecure move? Probably so, but I could imagine some scenarios where I would do this.

Some women can be downright mean. I would never hit a woman, but I also don't believe in karma - I believe that if a bully is walking around picking on people, they need to be punched in the mouth. Sending an email to her dad would just replace the punch.
You do it out of respect as a man, I have daughters myself. I wasnt just using his daughter either. She doing stuff that can get h
I have a daughter. If anything ne did some turd move like OPs, I might use it as a discussion item with her. But I would d finitely tell her not to hang out with immature losers.
Your right. He did it in a childish way. In my case the father gained respect and was thankful for me assembling the information. He explained she had a problem in the past getting attracted to ****ty good for nothing men he talked to her about it and thought she had outgrown it. And i only gave him 1% of the information.

I only did something because I wasnt' supporting some behaviors someone I cared deeply about was doing and I was sure her father wouldn't either. Also one of the paramours touched or threatened physical violence upon her, and I was letting him do something about it if he wanted to. It was no longer my place.

I have a daughter. If anything ne did some turd move like OPs, I might use it as a discussion item with her. But I would d finitely tell her not to hang out with immature losers.
 
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Update: Her okcupid account is deleted, and she blocked me off Facebook after texting "I can't believe you." Something had to have gone down, though I won't ever know the specifics.

If this prevents her from becoming HIV+ during her period of drunk depression, I'd count it as a better score than banging someone.
 

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haha OP can't say I would do what you did now but did something similar before. Was in a ~1 year LTR back in 06. Woman was 27 and had her super religious parents convinced she was a virgin. I ended our relationship but it was pretty sour and I was bitter over all of it. So I emailed her mother and said "Just so you know, your little daughter is not a virgin. Not only did I fvck her but 7 other guys before be did too. She is a liar and a bad little girl!".. I think I send mom a few screen shots of some dirty Yahoo Messenger chats the woman and I had had too... Again, can't say I would do anything like this now, but I can somewhat relate...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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haha OP can't say I would do what you did now but did something similar before. Was in a ~1 year LTR back in 06. Woman was 27 and had her super religious parents convinced she was a virgin. I ended our relationship but it was pretty sour and I was bitter over all of it. So I emailed her mother and said "Just so you know, your little daughter is not a virgin. Not only did I fvck her but 7 other guys before be did too. She is a liar and a bad little girl!".. I think I send mom a few screen shots of some dirty Yahoo Messenger chats the woman and I had had too... Again, can't say I would do anything like this now, but I can somewhat relate...
 

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OP, this girl owns you.
 

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I would rather my daughter date a man with the balls to not tolerate $hit.

Part of not tolerating $hit is getting back at those who fvk with you.
How did she fvk with him? By what he's said here, sounds to me like he fvcked with her.
 

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You people are to serious. Lol nice one OP!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Update: Her okcupid account is deleted, and she blocked me off Facebook after texting "I can't believe you." Something had to have gone down, though I won't ever know the specifics.

If this prevents her from becoming HIV+ during her period of drunk depression, I'd count it as a better score than banging someone.
You can tell yourself that you did it because you care about people getting HIV, but really this was a weird creepy move from someone who is having trouble moving on. If you had other quality prospects in your life you wouldn't care about sabotaging your ex's life.
 

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It depends if this was a wife to be type relationship and you were close to her family...I wouldnt send some evidence package but I would tell them my goodbyes and why I am leaving...daughter slooted it up and I have proof. This will break their hearts and they will be pissed at their daughter and she will forever have lost respect in their eyes.

No need to be vindictive about it. move on.
 

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Update: Her okcupid account is deleted, and she blocked me off Facebook after texting "I can't believe you." Something had to have gone down, though I won't ever know the specifics.

If this prevents her from becoming HIV+ during her period of drunk depression, I'd count it as a better score than banging someone.
No sir. I understand that you have convinced yourself that you only did this for the greater good and to protect her. But this action came from anger and hurt. She may have deleted an account you know about but there may be 10 other ones you know nothing about. You have made her father hurt and he was an innocent bystander. The revenge may have felt good or may have been funny but it did nothing to actually help yourself. You can not protect other people from themselves. I speak from personal experience.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No sir. I understand that you have convinced yourself that you only did this for the greater good and to protect her. But this action came from anger and hurt. She may have deleted an account you know about but there may be 10 other ones you know nothing about. You have made her father hurt and he was an innocent bystander. The revenge may have felt good or may have been funny but it did nothing to actually help yourself. You can not protect other people from themselves. I speak from personal experience.
If the family wants to do something about it they can, they have actual facts. It's better to do this than allow things to snowball even further.
 
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