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Master Don Juan
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I've always been slim and pretty cut up. Did sports n high school and collegeWere u fat before or you always had that body in your photo?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I've always been slim and pretty cut up. Did sports n high school and collegeWere u fat before or you always had that body in your photo?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Very nice! You should've grabbed her by the pvssy lolYes love it.. I actually hit the malls today.. I have not cold approached a chick, like FOREVER
I only came across around 3 chicks that i believed where hot, but could not isolate to chat to her..
Managed to finally get to a seriously hot chick, but she was POLISH.. I didn't understand a fuking word she said, and she was clueless about what the fuk i was on about lol
Anyway this was my first baby step.. So next weekend i have promised myself to approach minimum 3 chicks..
Work in progress!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Whats make the game really worth it.. free foodzChick I gave my number to at the club wants me to watch mayweather vs McGregor with her, her friend, and her friends boyfriend. Free liquor, free food, free mayweather match, and a hot asv bvtch. Decisions decisions. I'll hit this place up for 1.5 more hours