"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Out with the old in the with new (Fashion)

mtlwlu

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I can't help but notice how popular the fashion posts are on here, and lets face it fashion DOES play a role in being a DJ and even contributes to your sucess rate at your favourite pick up spots.

Personally Im just at that phase now where Im starting to avoid shopping at A&F and lacoste and moving on to styles that are more mature and dont yell out "college kid"

Seems the best approach is the long sleeve button down with jeans for casual wear.

so what are your favourite things to wear for clubs/everyday life/school and or work.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HalfAddict

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Funny you should post this, considering my favorite fashion is actually more of a throwback to the fifties. I'm not saying you should run out get a flannel roll up your jean cuffs and wear a slick pomp like I do, that just works for me because it fits the way I act and the way I really am... That and I guess you could go as far to say it's a type of peacocking. I constantly get female attention regarding my hair, and if they can touch it, that and I most def stand out from EVERYONE else at the "club" or Bar. But I can change it up to a pair of nice black slacks, dress shoes and a button down short sleeve shirt with a tie, keep the hair pomped and look GQ.


www.kinowear.com dude, badass site.
 

broken dreams

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I advise you to look into bradp's book on fashion.

also depends the location where you are if you want to get fashion consultant.
kinowear is good but i found a less expensive DJ that is a professional fashion consultant here in nyc and is also helping fix pimp my place.

go out and see what type of clothing and brands the guys wearing and especially the ones with the hottest girls. look at the combination of the colors.
if you want to get complex on me.

H&M is good store , too bad they dont carry my size so I put together my own ****.

I combine nice clothing w aggressive contrast.
thats just my style applied to contrast theory which builds intrigue and attraction cause Im a cool guy w aggressive n smooth look and a doctor.
 
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