"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Out of the game for a while.

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Had a couple of dates last week. Both went great. It annoys me that i dont have my own place though so i'm going to concentrate my mind fully on that. I will feel a lot more powerful when i have my own castle =)
The game can take a back seat for now. I've been studying "the game" for the past 7 months. This will help me acheive my goal of getting my own place. I've learned a lot, but still have much to learn.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rainman4707 said:
The game can take a back seat for now. I've been studying "the game" for the past 7 months. This will help me acheive my goal of getting my own place. I've learned a lot, but still have much to learn.
A wise choice and a good attitude. Keep us posted!
 

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Thanks, if i put half as much effort into finding a house as i have into "the game" i will be fine =)
 

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Well finalised the house deal couple of month back & nearly ready to move in so im hoping my bed will be getting a lot of action =) # Making moves
 
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