It's been a long time since I have opened up this website. Infact, it's been around a year now. I discovered sosuave when I was a senior in high school undergoing typical AFC syndrome, insecurity, fear of rejection, etc. I opened up a couple threads that pointed out some great c&f, kino moves, and eye contact methods, and I was in awe of these "invincible" tactics on how to become a so called... "DJ". Day by day i would check this site, read material, write down number closes, download pimp like music, and even went through my own personal boot camp.
For the 8 months or so that this lasted, I began talking to random ladies, holding eye contact, smiling, avoiding compliments, neghits, staying mysterious, and of course kept a number of women on the "playlist" at a time.
Eventually i came to a point where I didn't need to keep logging in to sosuave for more "tricks" and "tactics". I had memorized all the information that i THOUGHT I needed to become a DJ... Boy, was I WRONG.
Why was I wrong? I was wrong because I didn't know the true definition of a DJ.
Time went by as I moved onto college, met new people, and started a new life. Throughout this process and losing touch with sosuave's "seduction tricks", I started forgetting information, things to say, how to act, or who to be. I started questioning if girls were interested in me. I stopped speaking with strangers or random people through out the day. I stopped being assertive and became very passive. I began to sink right back to right where I started. An AFC. A B****!
Time nearly passed me by as I became unsocial, closed minded, boring, damn near depressed chump. Not only had I lost the ability to pick up an HB9.5 on the spot, but it began to effect the relationships with my freinds, family, hell I even became anxious when speaking with cashiers.
Without the don juan's telling me who to be, I felt as if I wasn't anybody.
I one day opened up this website and tried to find any victims of the same situation I was going through. Searching for a solution, something to pick me back up. I tried using the same lines, tactics, and moves that I used in the passed, but it wasn't the same. I couldn't apply anything.
It wasn't until recently that I found the answer to my problems... I didn't
know the true definition of a DJ. Though a majority of us come to this webpage for ways to bang the hottest women, that's not who Don Juan is. That's a man *****. Like pook and others have said before, a DJ is about being a MAN. A DJ doesn't care what other people think of him. A DJ isn't afraid of ANY female, nor is he afraid of turning ANY female down. A DJ isn't looking for acceptance, a DJ believes in himself. A DJ isn't afraid to voice his opinions, a DJ takes a stand for what he believes in. A DJ doesn't follow the pack, A DJ leads the way. A DJ isn't a ****y bas****, a DJ is confident with in himself. A DJ doesn't hesitate if he wants something, a DJ goes for what he wants. A DJ isn't afraid of rejection, a DJ is successful for attempting. A DJ has morals, interests, and values that are higher than that of any quickie in the bedroom, A DJ DOESN'T put women first. A DJ has respects himself, as does he everyone else. A DJ is in CONTROL.
These are the self attributes I never had until recently. I used to know the tricks to pick up women, but now I have the mentality of a MAN..in which I take risks, take control, hold no boundaries, strive for improvement, and face fears right in the eye. And that, gentlemen, is what women are drawn to.
Sure a good number close or neghit will catch a females attention, but being a MAN, a DJ, is all aspects of life is far more seducing to any HB.
I know this point has been made before, but I wanted to point it out from my perspective. Someone who's been there. I'm living life to the fullest now, and it feels better than ever. Women are coming up to me in the club, asking me to dance, and if I want to dance I'll dance, if not, I don't. When I see an HB I don't become anxious, I go about what I was doing. If I want to get her number, I'll talk to her. If an HB10 invites me over for wine and a movie, but I already have plans with the brothers watching the game, I watch the game and tell her another time. I have my priorities in line because I'm in control. I know have have the power of a MAN, a DJ.
For the 8 months or so that this lasted, I began talking to random ladies, holding eye contact, smiling, avoiding compliments, neghits, staying mysterious, and of course kept a number of women on the "playlist" at a time.
Eventually i came to a point where I didn't need to keep logging in to sosuave for more "tricks" and "tactics". I had memorized all the information that i THOUGHT I needed to become a DJ... Boy, was I WRONG.
Why was I wrong? I was wrong because I didn't know the true definition of a DJ.
Time went by as I moved onto college, met new people, and started a new life. Throughout this process and losing touch with sosuave's "seduction tricks", I started forgetting information, things to say, how to act, or who to be. I started questioning if girls were interested in me. I stopped speaking with strangers or random people through out the day. I stopped being assertive and became very passive. I began to sink right back to right where I started. An AFC. A B****!
Time nearly passed me by as I became unsocial, closed minded, boring, damn near depressed chump. Not only had I lost the ability to pick up an HB9.5 on the spot, but it began to effect the relationships with my freinds, family, hell I even became anxious when speaking with cashiers.
Without the don juan's telling me who to be, I felt as if I wasn't anybody.
I one day opened up this website and tried to find any victims of the same situation I was going through. Searching for a solution, something to pick me back up. I tried using the same lines, tactics, and moves that I used in the passed, but it wasn't the same. I couldn't apply anything.
It wasn't until recently that I found the answer to my problems... I didn't
know the true definition of a DJ. Though a majority of us come to this webpage for ways to bang the hottest women, that's not who Don Juan is. That's a man *****. Like pook and others have said before, a DJ is about being a MAN. A DJ doesn't care what other people think of him. A DJ isn't afraid of ANY female, nor is he afraid of turning ANY female down. A DJ isn't looking for acceptance, a DJ believes in himself. A DJ isn't afraid to voice his opinions, a DJ takes a stand for what he believes in. A DJ doesn't follow the pack, A DJ leads the way. A DJ isn't a ****y bas****, a DJ is confident with in himself. A DJ doesn't hesitate if he wants something, a DJ goes for what he wants. A DJ isn't afraid of rejection, a DJ is successful for attempting. A DJ has morals, interests, and values that are higher than that of any quickie in the bedroom, A DJ DOESN'T put women first. A DJ has respects himself, as does he everyone else. A DJ is in CONTROL.
These are the self attributes I never had until recently. I used to know the tricks to pick up women, but now I have the mentality of a MAN..in which I take risks, take control, hold no boundaries, strive for improvement, and face fears right in the eye. And that, gentlemen, is what women are drawn to.
Sure a good number close or neghit will catch a females attention, but being a MAN, a DJ, is all aspects of life is far more seducing to any HB.
I know this point has been made before, but I wanted to point it out from my perspective. Someone who's been there. I'm living life to the fullest now, and it feels better than ever. Women are coming up to me in the club, asking me to dance, and if I want to dance I'll dance, if not, I don't. When I see an HB I don't become anxious, I go about what I was doing. If I want to get her number, I'll talk to her. If an HB10 invites me over for wine and a movie, but I already have plans with the brothers watching the game, I watch the game and tell her another time. I have my priorities in line because I'm in control. I know have have the power of a MAN, a DJ.