You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Maybe if it was la or nyc it would be different, but heck out my 60 mile region on tinder out of those 300 women 260 of them I wouldn't even consider plowing. Most I see in tinder are fat, have nose rings, covered in tats, bad teeth and overall just look gross.my opinion:Girls on Tinder do smash. A lot!
yeah hypergamy is an awful thing, it worked it old society when women had less rights and more men where capable of having something to bargain...www.girlsaskguys.com
Yeah I'm really surprised he and the other incel trolls haven't been banned yet. Really bringing the quality if this great forum down.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Even the 16% is kind of misleading. Sure, 16% of the men may be having any sex at all - but within those 16% there are still the top guys taking the lion's share, it's not an even distribution with a table of equals. It's probably really 5% or so are doing great, 10% are getting by but probably below their own smv, 85% are celibate.
Since you are new here, I will give you a tip you may not yet be aware of. If you repeatedly don't like somebody's post content you can click on their name next to one of their posts, and then click "Ignore". This way you never see their posts. Sort of like your own custom SS experience.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You know how averages work right? Are you making a cheeky reference or are you actually serious?
I mean you're not a chad and have a disability and middle age. So how are you getting all these girls then?
I like the incels. They are the ones shedding light on reality. The blackpill is the last truth you can swallow -it is the final one. Natural selection is real and I agree with much of the philosophy despite not being incel myself
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah, I don't understand why people have problem with the original post. This forum has always maintained that the top guys get most of the sex, whether you believe in the 80/20 rule or something similar. That has always been a major tenet of the red pill. The link provided simply provides evidence for that belief. Why is that a problem?
Men shouldn't be complaining, instead you need to adapt and survive in order to thrive.
It's fine to point out reality, but the posting is obviously meant to fan the flames of red pill rage and there's nothing but bitterness to be found going down that road.
I found the original post informative. It provides scientific (or at least semi-scientific) proof for what we knew all along.
I'm still confused. I'm not knocking you, but you're middle aged, have a visible disability, etc. everything that usually goes against a man that is talked about on here and yet you get girls more than anyone on this site despite being older and physically disabled.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.