“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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mrgoodstuff

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Dude you have more time than 99% of the population. Just look at your posting stats you probably do about 2 or 3 hours of work a day judging by the number of posts you make. User your super intelligence to manage your time better.
Boom.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I never said that girls didn't find muscles attractive. What I said was that it is actually pointless to survival, and by no means does getting large muscles at the gym make you a tough guy or an alpha male. If anything, it might mean you have too much free time. The same way that getting tattoos doesn't make you a tough guy.

The fact that (some) girls find large muscles or tattoos attractive is independent of the facts stated above. And what's worse is that some girls actually think that large muscles and tattoos (and beards) make a guy tough. It fools the subconscious regions of their hamster brain.
I wouldn't say muscles are pointless to survival. Okay sure we don't spend our days hunting mammoths anymore but in any physical confrontation (heck, any physical labour you need to do over the course of your life too) muscles are very useful.

As you say, muscles alone also don't make you tough if you're just lifting weights all day and not actually training for fitness.

HOWEVER, muscular men should nonetheless be respected. At the very least they have put in work to attain that level of hypertrophy, at the very most they are physically stronger than average and may well genuinely be tougher in a fight too.

There's a reason crime bosses often run gyms and recruit the men in them.

I know a guy who's about 6'7" and used to be a street brawler in his youth, and then he became a doorman (ironically). He's not roided up but he's done martial arts for 20 years and his physical strength and ability certainly enabled him to survive situations most people would not have. A no-holds barred fight on his own against 3 men in an alley, for example. Certainly not a guy I'd mess with, certainly someone I'd say is "alpha" and certainly a guy who is hard as f*ck.

(Also it goes without saying: in any given fight I'd rather go against some small guy with no muscles than a small guy with huge triceps).
 
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I notice it too. I didn't invent these paradoxes, I just point them out.

Kind of like saying that pu$$y is just a stinking hole, yet spending thousands per year on hookers. You need it sometimes,
It's not a paradox, it's a decision. You can't choose both.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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