Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Our World Movie

h2o

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this was a moving movie/presentation I got in my email...

...I think some of it coincides with the teachings on Sosuave, and it is a 1-2 minutes well worth it to watch:

http://www.ourworldmovie.com/
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Who you are in that moment can change someone else's day."

Yeah, that's true... I guess it just tells us to be aware of other's feelings.

However, I don't see what it has to do with dating. :-D
 

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Originally posted by h2o
this was a moving movie/presentation I got in my email...

...I think some of it coincides with the teachings on Sosuave, and it is a 1-2 minutes well worth it to watch:

http://www.ourworldmovie.com/
wow, its not moving at all, that must have been done by a 5th grader.
 
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