"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Our time is now DJs

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Our time is now. There are lots of girls out there and some dude is going to be banging her, might as well (and should) be you DJs.

This thread is a small pep-talk meant to inspire. Inspiration leads to achieving goals, no matter what they are.

Time to get your A game on and start getting the women and sex you want!

- No more over-analyzing

Doing this only leads to "Paralysis by Analysis". Keep over-analyzing. Next thing you know, she's married and you're still jacking it over her!

- No oneitus

Mirror, mirror on the wall, who's the hottest of them all? Her! Not you. I guess she is the prize. You place all the value with her. You are fantisizing over her while some other dude is banging her. You are the prize. She doesn't get your attention unless she's putting out!

- No more self-sabbotage from getting burned before

Those experiences you should learn from and make adjustments, not dwell over. Use them to your advantage. What did you learn? How can you better apply it to the next girl?

- No more doubt

This one is the mother of all insecurities. Doubting leads to a vicious cycle and no action and alot of hesitation. Do not doubt and do not hesitate! Make the play.

- No more Fear

To fear is not to conquer. You must conquer fear in order to conquer her. If you don't approach, then fear has won.


Flirt! Be sexual! Get her hot! Spin those plates! If she don't want you, then next her. Don't waste your time.

No more sitting on the side-lines when you could be an MVP!!

Lead! Lead! Lead her to the bedroom.

She wants great sex too! If not with you, she'll get it somewhere else. You know that.

Indulge! Reward yourself. Now get out there, make some plays and win one (or several) for the Gipper!
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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And so the call to arms is made! Get your condoms stocked up and hit the town boys! Tonight we dine by the hands of soon to be former virgins!

Solarium said:
I keep hearing about spinning the plates. What exactly does it mean?
Talking to girls keeping out of the friends zone with the potential to pursue at later dates.

What the hell you're in vegas, it should be shooting fish in barrel for you myfriend. Get out there and kill it.
 
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