"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Our Society is screwed up.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Come on,we are talking just about two fact!
So when we read about a shooting near a bank we can say all the people is made of bank robbers and police men? :p
 

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http://news.aol.com/article/florida-...suicide/460424

extreme AFCism in this article ? WTF OP. Do u even know what the term AFC means ? It in no way relates to this article. Perhaps you need to read the DJ bible before posting on this website.

The second article has nothing to do with AFCism. There were some deep rooted issues there. Perhaps he was bi-polar ? No sane 17 yr old will booze (how did he get the alcohol ? ) and then hang himself.

How many teenage couples break up over the course of a year in AMerica, and how many kill themselves as a result ? Not many. Obviously a case of mental instability.
 

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The fact of the matter is...

Well the fact of the matter is...

A man today is likely going to kill himself over relationship problems or marital problems than a woman. You cannot deny that fact.

Just look at the freakin statistics. Theres a huge difference in the suicide rates in Men and Women today.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Better question would be when was society never screwed up? A good amount of people are just ****ed up in the head no matter what time period you look at.
 

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Gotta call straight BS on this thread. Much worse thing have happened in the past and I can't even speculate on the genocide that awaits. Though these reports are gut wrenching for the unexperienced, they are hardly the greek tragedy that plays itself out for humanity on a daily basis.
 

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Upside said:
Better question would be when was society never screwed up? A good amount of people are just ****ed up in the head no matter what time period you look at.

Before feminism society wasn't screwed up :rockon: .
 
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