"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What should you do when another guy is gaming the same girl as you are? Today I was gaming this girl at volleyball, I just approached her found out her name and just talked a little. When I left to practice, another guy came over and started gaming her too, except he talked to her for a much longer period of time than I did so he got to spit more game at her. What could I have done to attract her without seeming like I'm fighting with the other guy for her attention? by the way i'm not really cool with "amoging" , or dissing, the other guy because we're kind of friends. also, other people at volleyball hit on this girl left and right and most of those guys talk to her a lot more often than I do. so how much should i talk to her when I'm there?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My style is to let them spill their beans out. They almost don't do number closes or ****, just continue to talk and talk and someday become friends, yada yada.

So, next chance I get, I number close. In front of him if you can. Say, hey, i've gotta go, ..#? And... split!



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So, they talk. You approach, say hi to the guy with hand and all. Tell her you gotta go, # close, and go. Making sure to say bye to the guy with the hand and all.

edit: make sure to do your "i'm a pimp" walk when you split.
 
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I had a great one this week. Girl wanted someone to walk her to her car since it was dark and late. I told her I was staying a bit longer at the bar with my friends and asked for her number. Got her number and I asked the AFC competition to walk her to her car - he did. LOL

Don't be afraid to include your competition in the conversation - its really quite fun.
 
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she isn't your gf so who cares... Just keep gaming her and make her invest more time with you instead of the other people. Just because u approached the hb10 doesn't mean no one else isn't going too, she looks good others are going to approach her you just need to get her attracted too u and make her invest some time in yall interaction.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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