"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Other word for oneitis
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Oneitis is a made-up word meant to represented exactly that: a one-sided infatuation for a specific individual. Of course it's not gonna be found in a dictionary, not right now that is.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Maverick001
Senior Don Juan
oneitis - for a woman this means that she`s fallen in love and is totally smitten with a man.
For the man, oneitis is to be avoided always, even though he may be in a marriage that has already endured for decades. Although he may love and care deeply for his wife, his marriage should not incapacitate him if it does not endure. The marriage should be a part of his life and not his life. A man`s self-worth should always be defined by him and no one else.
For the woman, this is something to be avoided in the very beginning of a connection with a man, because falling quickly into love usually means falling quickly out of love. The fire of lust and passion will swiftly exhaust itself but love endures and brings discipline to lust and passion, thereby giving it longevity. Women define themselves by the relationships that they have.
Just my 2 cents.
Cheers,
Mav
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Excellent.Originally posted by Maverick001
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:crackup:Originally posted by Martini Joe
Webster isn't going to help you get your willy wet, son. What's the point?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.