“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Other women, let the girl know ?

dice

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Okay I've been hanging out with this girl for a few weeks and on our second date I told her I just wanted to be friends and I'm not looking for a relationship.. and now she won't have sex with me. She keeps saying she can't be with someone she's not with with. I don't really care because I think she's ugly, that's why I told her i wanted to be friends early on because I didn't want her to get attached because I still planned on sarging and ddating other girls. I'm just tryin to get laid, bein a 21 yo virgin is taking a toll on me. In fact when I sarged her I did it as kind of a joke to myself, I was like hey let me sarge this ugly girl. But that doesn't change the fact that my goal right now is to lose my v card. This is crazy she sleeps over but we don't do anything but make out and feel eachother up.

I have 2 questions:

1) What should I do about my situation? Remain friends with her without the benefits? Tell her to f off and sarge girls I actually think are attractive? Any suggestions are welcome..

2) Regardless of my situation, should a DJ ever let a girl know he's seeing other girls or plans on seeing other girls, or should he play the game and let the girl think shes the one and only?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dice said:
1) What should I do about my situation? Remain friends with her without the benefits? Tell her to f off and sarge girls I actually think are attractive? Any suggestions are welcome..
Friends? What, does she buy you beer or ****? Do you watch some games on tv and she brings pizza and ****? Or, on the other hand, do you two watch Desperate Housewives and get your panties wet by seeing all that action :crazy: !?

What should you do? Keep doing what you're doing... DJing her without getting into a relationship while you keep gaming other hos.

dice said:
2) Regardless of my situation, should a DJ ever let a girl know he's seeing other girls or plans on seeing other girls, or should he play the game and let the girl think shes the one and only?
Think of it this way. Say you have a kick ass convertible, new, hot.. that **** smells like money. You can brag a bit, but not go overboard. But, you won't hide it and not let anyone see it and only go out at night with it.
 

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the convertible being other women?
 

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Yes.

You don't deny it, you don't scream about it. Great things have a way of showing off by themselves.
 
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