"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Other women, let the girl know ?

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Okay I've been hanging out with this girl for a few weeks and on our second date I told her I just wanted to be friends and I'm not looking for a relationship.. and now she won't have sex with me. She keeps saying she can't be with someone she's not with with. I don't really care because I think she's ugly, that's why I told her i wanted to be friends early on because I didn't want her to get attached because I still planned on sarging and ddating other girls. I'm just tryin to get laid, bein a 21 yo virgin is taking a toll on me. In fact when I sarged her I did it as kind of a joke to myself, I was like hey let me sarge this ugly girl. But that doesn't change the fact that my goal right now is to lose my v card. This is crazy she sleeps over but we don't do anything but make out and feel eachother up.

I have 2 questions:

1) What should I do about my situation? Remain friends with her without the benefits? Tell her to f off and sarge girls I actually think are attractive? Any suggestions are welcome..

2) Regardless of my situation, should a DJ ever let a girl know he's seeing other girls or plans on seeing other girls, or should he play the game and let the girl think shes the one and only?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dice said:
1) What should I do about my situation? Remain friends with her without the benefits? Tell her to f off and sarge girls I actually think are attractive? Any suggestions are welcome..
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Friends? What, does she buy you beer or ****? Do you watch some games on tv and she brings pizza and ****? Or, on the other hand, do you two watch Desperate Housewives and get your panties wet by seeing all that action :crazy: !?

What should you do? Keep doing what you're doing... DJing her without getting into a relationship while you keep gaming other hos.

dice said:
2) Regardless of my situation, should a DJ ever let a girl know he's seeing other girls or plans on seeing other girls, or should he play the game and let the girl think shes the one and only?
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Think of it this way. Say you have a kick ass convertible, new, hot.. that **** smells like money. You can brag a bit, but not go overboard. But, you won't hide it and not let anyone see it and only go out at night with it.
 
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the convertible being other women?
 
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Yes.

You don't deny it, you don't scream about it. Great things have a way of showing off by themselves.
 
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