Other People Want You To Fail

[mangotot]

I am just looking for a bit of perspective here.

Am I right to say its a not very neccessarily a friendly world out there and many people want you to fail?

Say you go day gaming, if you approach a hot girl sourronded by others, they will look, smirk, laugh, make noises, and try all sorts of other stuff to put you off. (Bear in mind no one will come in and interupt the chat). It'll be worse if you are an ethnic guy in the Western world since you are different from the regular guy and you stand out. Even some of the women don't make it easy, they brush you off. If you are an obviously super high value guy, then they'll give you all the time of the day.

I don't want to be negative here, just looking for a bit of realism. For sure, there are people rooting for you but there is a lot of people that want you to fail. Not applicable to day game per say but life in general.

 

[IBreatheSpears]

That sh­it's so common it has a cutesy name: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tall_poppy_syndrome

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Yes, it's either they want you to fail or they don't give af

 

[Building_and_Loan]

They want you to fail because they're too chickensh!t to do what you're doing, approaching a hot girl.

They're haters, basically.

 

[mangotot]

They want you to fail because they're too chickensh!t to do what you're doing, approaching a hot girl.

They're haters, basically.

Its not just men, other women are rooting for you to fail too.

 

[El Payaso]

People are like crabs in a bucket when they see one leaving, they pull you back down because they don't want to see you succeed and leave them in the bucket.

 

[AttackFormation]

People are like crabs in a bucket when they see one leaving, they pull you back down because they don't want to see you succeed and leave them in the bucket.

It's actually true too, hahaha...

 

[_sideways_]

Its a great thing.

They see greatness when they do that sort of thing.

My brother does that shyt....we r all stuck on this ship called earth. As long as no one is hurting you....youre doing golden.

 

[Trump]

Come on bro, this is basic basic stuff you are taking about, stuff you figure out in grade school, or at least aresupposed to.

No one wants you to: succeed, be better looking, know more people, make more money, get more sex, have a hotter girlfriend, live a nicer place, or generally enjoy life. Any success, no how remote, will remind them of their own failures.

Just look at Twitter and professional athletes, any small mistake in the game and they are just destroyed. Same people can't handle it when their boss yells at them. It's pretty ridiculous.

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

People are competitive by default your success is their failure.Only people who want you to win are your parents.Sometimes even brother or sister are trying to make you fail.

To people be good and kind they woild have to be happy, most people are unhappy and frustrated.

 

[BrainDamage92]

Well this is how stupid people think. Because using other peoples' failures to measure your own success is stupid. Theres two kindso f stupid people - weak and strong. The strong conquer the weak. But the theres is only one kind of smart and it conquers them both.

If you feel jealous of somebody elses success you aint happy with yourself.

And you shouldnt care at all what other people think or how other people react only judge yourself according to what you believe in and be the person you believe in ;]

 

[mangotot]

Come on bro, this is basic basic stuff you are taking about, stuff you figure out in grade school, or at least aresupposed to.

Hence the reason for being on a seduction forum. Being influenced by others, not doing something because others don't want you to do it, affected by the reactions of others are all synonous of the nice guy. And the nice guy will finish last.