"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dointhingsright

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Ok guys I have my girlfriend that I like a lot and I realize that she is going to hang out with other guys but why does it piss me off so much. im getting really jealous. Should I show her that im mad or just play it off cool. Is jealousy a turnoff for girls? Should I play the same game and go hang out with other girls with my guy friends? Just some input would help, thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bcdefxyz2000

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u wanna know the diference between you adn her? she isnt obsessed with you adn you are crazy about her. she prolly doesent think you care or she didnt. but dont let her know casue it will look bad. but you just need to get over it. a lot of girls arent willing to give up their social habits for a BF, and i probably wouldnt either.

just dont let it bother you but you do need to show that she is taken sometimes, cause this reminds me of one of my friends whos GF was alot liek that. the two of them adn a few others adn me would hang out sometimes adn she would just blow him off for the other guys . He just stood there watching and he would get so jealous. he didnt talk to other girls or anything. He would just stand there watching her have fun wit hother guys. he didnt show any possesion either so all the guys didnt give a sh1t about them. the relation ship ended in shame for him. he now mopes around fallowing her and , its just sad, yet quite funny.

dont be that guy!!!

and dont show jealousy either. you will lose all your power. and go hang with your friends. she does, you should too.
 

dointhingsright

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na she cares man. she asks me about the girls i hang out with and if i put up an away message "hanging out with....." or mall with ....." or anything about any other girl she is the first to ask who she is. i know i cant stop her hanging out with guys just as she cant stop me hanging out with other girls but how should i act towards her when she says ..."hanging out with so and so". i get a little mad and she can tell. i dont know if i should try the i dont care attitude or what.
 

Sax God

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Jealousy is a turnoff to girls. Just play it cool and act like it doesn't bother you. If you want to hang out with girls, do it. Don't do it just to spite her, though.
 

drixsa

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have you read the bible??

or the or the original one?

"thou shall not covet..."

if she sees that you dont care if she hangs with other guys then you will have won a battle.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Eternal

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Do you think she's jealous when you talk to other girls?
 

NYC Dude

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As long as she isn't doing them sexual favors, then you should just let her hang out with anyone she pleases. Then again, if one day you walk in on her blowing the football team, then you have the right to be mad. Very mad.
 

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haha

HAHA ...I am going to take this girl on a date and she has a boyfriend well kinda a date we going to hang out hahaha... the woman said her boyfriend can't tell her what to do
 

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Re: haha

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HAHA ...I am going to take this girl on a date and she has a boyfriend well kinda a date we going to hang out hahaha... the woman said her boyfriend can't tell her what to do
I'm going through the same thing. The way I see it, if she were happy with her boyfriend, she wouldn't have asked me to do something with her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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