good job, you and espi know what time it isI do have a take on this. There is a lot of “Alphas ignore and yada-yada....
There are lines for every person you ever meet. Professionally. Socially and of course with a woman.
Being “butt-hurt” is the wrong somehow frowned upon reaction. A public display of out of control emotion or getting overly upset on the surface would be the incorrect action. Especially in a get together setting.
This is where a good man is discreet in his delivery and handling of the situation. Firstly, to openly hit on your date, girlfriend or wife in front of you is unacceptable conduct in any setting. Do not listen to all the red-pill dogma in this thread. It’s bull shyt.
Unless your woman is hideous, fat or unattractive, men will always flirt and even boldly try to pick her up. There’s absolutely nothing you can do about that.
Ignore the woman in the thread as well. Her self interest is glaring. She knows exactly what she’s doing.
Rule: Never allow anyone to belittle you or debase you without letting them know it’s unacceptable. Especially a woman. It doesn’t matter if it’s a boss.
Tact may be required.
The correct action is to observe it. Confront the truth of it. Then wait for an opportunity to address it. Your analytical mind must stay in place.
Wait for the offenders to separate away from you and your date.
When you see where they go, you calmly excuse yourself and go to them.
Fact: Just being a relative does not grant liberties to come on to another man’s date, girlfriend, or wife. Especially in front of you. This is a severe masculine shyt test. For some men, others wouldn’t dare do it in front of him. Just by his masculine presence.
Fact: They did it because they knew you wouldn’t do anything about it. Where did they get the idea that it was ok? That’s on you. In the past, it was ascertained by the offenders that they were more dominant as it pertains to you. You have to own it. Then fix it.
With these two facts in mind, once you get up to them you let them know that they are out of line. There are lots of ways to do this. That’s up to you. As long as you deliver it as though you are in command.
I watched a fellow Marine do it one time after a drunk Marine hit on his girlfriend. I was standing right there. After the arsehole separated he eventually followed him and had the “talk”. He told him that if he did it again he would bash his skull in.
For some reason the guy wasn’t so drunk anymore.
The point is it doesn’t have to be that extreme but it must be done in man world. The woman cannot be present directly. Trust me, she knows where you are going and what you are doing. Don’t you dare believe all that red-pill alpha garbage running through this thread. A woman LOVES a man with boundaries. Especially when he has the social brilliance to handle man stuff in the man paradigm.
Now, some of these guys are applying this without a grain of sense connected to it. The man that looses it and makes a scene is definitely frowned upon. But the man who handles his business and life is respected. Poindexter’s miss-apply what they’ve been told or read because they have no real life experience. They are just repeating it is all.
What are the two most important things a woman must feel when out with you? Protection and Safety. There is something called redemption but that’s another subject.
Despite her being able to take care of herself, she absolutely does want to see that the man she is with ensures those things with his masculinity. Masculinity is everything. Are you also going to let your cousin rape her too? Huh?
I’m not saying she is thinking these things in her mind. Her biology and subconscious are witness to it. There’s nothing more sexy than a man who knows what’s ok and what’s not. He stands his ground and won’t back down. He is a single point of light. BUT he must be a professional when he executes this. This is impressive. Trust me on this. She’s fukking you later. Act like a douche and you’re done. Act like a pvssy and do nothing and as a man, you are nothing and she absolutely cannot trust you. The warm feeling she had will be gone.