Other guys flirting with your girl....

[DJoneday]

Alright, tomorrow night I got plans to go exclusive with some girl, I already know she wants it and I figure I might as well, but there's a problem.

This girl is really damn hot (why settle for less?) But there's constantly guys going "Oh your so hot" and even my buddies saying "Man I'd hit it" etc etc. Well with my friends I know they aren't going to do anything, so i just take it as a "good job man", but with other kids it's kind of annoying when they're always trying to flirt with her n all, how do you guys think I shoul dhandle it? Leave it along and just take it as a compliment to the girl? (She isn't going to cheat, I know that much), b!tch em out? Any suggestsions would be great, thanks.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by DJoneday
Alright, tomorrow night I got plans to go exclusive with some girl, I already know she wants it and I figure I might as well, but there's a problem.

This girl is really damn hot (why settle for less?) But there's constantly guys going "Oh your so hot" and even my buddies saying "Man I'd hit it" etc etc. Well with my friends I know they aren't going to do anything, so i just take it as a "good job man", but with other kids it's kind of annoying when they're always trying to flirt with her n all, how do you guys think I shoul dhandle it? Leave it along and just take it as a compliment to the girl? (She isn't going to cheat, I know that much), b!tch em out? Any suggestsions would be great, thanks.

Just take it as a complement to her (as long as she doesn't feel that they are being rude). Try working on your game too, make sure that she has to be out of her mind to leave you. Keep working on yourself because without having an appropriate level of confidence in yourself will always leave you feeling jealous and/or distrustful of any guy that give your girl attention.

 

[El Schweenador]

If I was you, I wouldn't worry about those other guys. If you're sure shes into you, they pose no threat. The fact that they're going around calling your girl hot should make you proud, since you've snagged one of the hottest girls around. Besides, any really good looking girl is gonna get hit on by guys reguardless of whether she has a boyfriend or not....after all. it is regular male behavior!

 

[Smooth as Anything]

Intimidate...

No one will **** with a girl who's boyfriend scares the **** out of them.

Trust.

 

[InsidiousNstinct]

You could have fun with this and use C@F...

Example: You and your girl are out walking in the park or somewhere and some guy whistles and screams, "nice arse." Just look over your shoulder and say something like..."Thanks I work out."

 

[nath]

Originally posted by JBizzle
You could have fun with this and use C@F...

Example: You and your girl are out walking in the park or somewhere and some guy whistles and screams, "nice arse." Just look over your shoulder and say something like..."Thanks I work out."

haha
anyways:
you know if your budds acknowledge the girl as a HB, you are getting MAJOR social proof props for that and for the guys trying to score on the girl, DO NOT TAKE IT SERIOUSLY, it will only show that you are insecure about loosing her (man yea its WAY more easily said then done) but just try not to loose your coolness and joke around and tell em off kinda like C&F.

 

[DJoneday]

Haha good tips, me n her are exclusive now and there's already been people commenting on her - I've just gone for the social proof and put my arm around her when it happens...already had two guys say something like "Nice job man". Thanks for the tips, really helped me out.

 

[InsidiousNstinct]

No Problem good to see it all worked out...

 

[CrazyAsianBiker]

now everyone will think my posts are bull**** but this is what i really do. and i'm serious so please don't think i'm somet ype of idiot. actually you know what if you think i'm an idiot f*ck you i keep my intelllegence back and bring it out when needed.

anways, if some guy says that just walk up to the guy and start shaking him. grab his shoulders and shake him and start smiling.
and say "YES! I LOVE YOU!" and shake harder as you say that then give them a thumbs up and put your arm around your girl and walk away.

 

[Raven125]

I like to mess with the guys... when one says something like "Oh your so hot" to the girl, walk past and say "why thank you!"

 

[DJoneday]

Ok, well the problem has kind of grown a bit - I'm fine with guys making comments and flirting with her and such, but we go to different schools, and she comes home every day and talks about how guys are flirting with her a lot, and she doesn't like it. Seeing as we don't go to the same school, there isn't a lot I can do about it, but do you guys have any suggestions for how she can make guys cut back on it a little? It's bugging her and not me this time...

 

[Daneelo S]

Tell her this "Look, I don't care if you want to go out with other guys or even flirt with them. If you're willing to give up steak at home for hamburger elsewhere be my guest. I'll just have known that I misjudged you and will be in the arms of my next 'steak' by nights-end." Credit Denis neder for this one

 

[DJoneday]

Well it isn't her cheating I'm worried about....it's suggestions I can give to her about keeping other guys from hitting on her so much...since it's based on the way she looks I'm not sure there's a lot to be done, but I figured it was worth asking.

 

[InsidiousNstinct]

Have her fart around guys....

Haha..just kidding.

Just have her tell the guys thats hitting on her, "Hey I'm in a relationship right now and Im very happy, so please leave me alone or my boyfriend will beat ur arse."

Ok...you might want to leave out the latter part, this is all I can think of for now.

 

[CrazyAsianBiker]

give them a mean look when they flirt with her.

or just flat out say.

"what the **** are you doing"

then grab them and SHAKE THEM ****ING SHAKE THEM.

i'm serious man if you keep letting them do it it WILL turn into a cheating problem.

 

[WrEcKLeSS2000]

I wouldn't worry about what other people say...Thats what us guys do, we say damn that girl is hot....Even if they are taken...As long as she likes you, you shouldn't have anything to worry about...Just don't get all jealous about it, Be confident in yourself