"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Other Guy?

TheNewGuy

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So i'm thinking of asking this girl (who's a year above me) to prom. But, every once in a while she brings up this guy (lets call him Bob). It seems like Bob might have a girlfriend already, and they're just close friends. I was thinking of just going "So whats up with you and Bob?", but I don't want it to sound like I'm jealous of Bob or anything...

So how should I find out?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Soupar

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Don't find out... fvck Bob, hes got nothing to do with it. In fact just forget Bob, you're better than him, even if he's a movie star. Ask the girl and if she says yes then hurray you're in.
 

TheNewGuy

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Soupar said:
Don't find out... fvck Bob, hes got nothing to do with it. In fact just forget Bob, you're better than him, even if he's a movie star. Ask the girl and if she says yes then hurray you're in.
Thanks for the advice. I just set up a date with her tomorrow at her house... to watch a movie... ;)
 
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