Other DJs.

[LinkinParkROX]

I can be called a DJ in training. My kino definitely needs more practice, and so do my other "tools". I just remembered something that happened a few days ago which was a huge blow to my ego/overall self opinion. Basically, I hung out with two friends of mine, a boy and a girl. The boy is a true blue DJ - he knows his sh!t. I watched how this guy was being around this girl, and it was totally down-bringing. He was practically molesting her with kino, being C&F and stuff. Seeing this, I turned almost completely AFC. I felt totally out of it and weird. Since then, all my DJ training and feeling like a DJ just went down the toilet. Help, please.

 

[Scar Tissue]

why? you just said hes a friend.

You can learn from him just as your learning from this website. Certain things about the game will even be easier to pick up by watching him rather than trying to read it on a website.

You could even ask for advice from him if your good enough friends. Iv recently taken one friend of mine under my wing because he came to me a couple times for advice. Now i go out of my way to teach him how to get girls.
You relationship doesnt need to be at that level but it definitely wouldnt hurt.

Your improving so dont be discuraged like that

 

[jeffthechef]

dont worry lol..you didnt have much training to lose...it's been about a month or less...and you only have 17 posts...with many of them being your own threads...so relax

if he's a close friend of yours....you should hang out with him more...and he can probably help you out..if he doesnt want to help you directly, you'll learn much from obsveration alone...

and if she was focused more on him and didnt try to get you in the converesation...you can assume she was simply more interested in him...

i wouldn't read too much into this one situation

 

[TheEnergizer]

this is kinda like youre other thread i just replied to haha. but this one puts into more perspective exactly what you were talking about when you were talking about these guys.

but wow you should count yourself lucky! why on gods green earth are you feeling like crap from all this? i wish i knew someone like that. if hes youre friend you should totally ask him about it. since when in history did friends not talk about and teach other on ways to get girls? thats what me and my friend do all the time. but unlike your case, were more or less on the same level. which is why youre lucky. i doubt that this guy isnt gonna help you out if youre his friend. why wouldnt he? also, you can even just observe him. totally learn from what he does the next time he does what you described. its a great way to learn. if this guy obviously knows his stuff. that sounds pretty amazing what he was doing, i wish i was able to observe that guy and learn from him cause i wanna be able to do that.

 

[Natural Vibe]

Take every opportunity you get to learn from a natural. They are the guys we try to imitate, and ultimately, become.

You felt bad because you started getting the "I'm good with girls ego" and witnessing someone else being good with girls totally blew you away from your pedestal. You're down and hurt; but you can get up and become better.

It's all part of the process.

Like my Judo coach says,

"The loser isn't the one who competes and loses. The real loser is the one who never competes."